After 10 years, he decides he only loves me like a sister and wants to divorce

[RavenBanshee]

After 10 years, he finally decides that he only loves me like a sister and wants to file for divorce as soon as possible.

 

I guess our marriage was doomed from the start. I was 19 and he was 24. We had problems immediately and a whole lot of tragedy.

 

For years now, he has been becoming a completely different person than the one I knew and always lied about little things.

 

Especially once we had kids. He had little reguard for them. So, I naturally put them first. During these few years, I was diagnosed with MS and our youngest son was diagnosed with P.D.D. NOS which is an autism sprectum disorder.

 

He was extremely miserable to me and the kids the last few years and I'm actually happy to see him go. He did say ,he he only loved me like a sister for a very long time now and since he was so rotten to me, I feel the same way about him. What I wish is that he told me sooner.

 

Our sexual relationship was vaguely present at times in the last few years, maybe a pity 3 pump poke every few months or so. The other thing is, when things started slowing down in the bedroom originally, he said he wanted to watch me be with other men. This is something I told was better left in fantasy land and not a reality I wanted to share.

 

Now, that I've been "freed" my sex drive has been turned up to hyper and I'm ready to start serving it out like a soup kitchen. The guy I've become attracted to is 20. He is from a background that is just as dysfunctional as mine. I'd like us to be friends w/benefits but, I've never done anything like that before.

 

Just would appreciate advice, thanks. Holly

[overseas2004]

There is nothing wrong with that. Go for it. You have been tied to a ****ty relationship for awhile. Why not enjoy yourself and have some great sex with a younger guy. Do be careful though. Have him tested and make him wear condoms. There are all kinds of diseases out there.

 

Regards

 

Overseas