she cheated and now she wants to do all that she can do to get me back.

[ustagiggle]

heres the deal. my girlfriend cheated on me 2 months ago. dating for 18 months.

 

the post is on here.

 

she says that she is willing to do anything to work it out.

 

1. going to aa meetings. i think she needs to go to sa meetings too.

 

2. going to the door of the man that she did this with and spilling the beans.

 

3. never speaking with him again. about bussines or anything.

 

4. give back the little trinkets that he gave to her. sell them or throw them away.

 

now, when we got togather i knew all about him. he was the reason that she was divorced.

we had conversations about this lengthy disscussions about this. she swore to never do it again.

 

she has two kids form here mairage. a boy who is 4, and a girl that is six.

i am a part of there lives. i did all of the first things in live with him. i even pottie trained him. got him to go #2.

i picked her daughter up from school all last year.

 

i feel so bad for the kids. i feel like i just can't up and leave them. it has been a week she told them i was working out of town.

her son went to the bathroom all by himself #2. he wanted to call and tell me.

 

i had waited so long before i met her. i had been so honest with her, and she with be, but the drinking lead to bad decissions.

he started persuing her. she tripped and fell down.

 

right now she realizes just what she had. i feel more sorry for her than i do myself.

see i have been on the end of this stick before.

 

when we stared seeing each other i told myself that i would do whatever it would take to stay with her. i said it then but i haven't decied on what to do.

[honey2005]

her son went to the bathroom all by himself #2. he wanted to call and tell me.