Ladies, give us a peek at the playbook, !

[chucksagent]

Ladies....

 

The VAST majority of you that I have seen on here seem to be awesome! Very open minded, kind, sometimes aggressive, but overall very intelligent and honest people.

 

I would like to think that the fact we are ALL on here together looking for wisdom and advice in the ways of love are on that journey TOGETHER.

 

I NEED a peek at the Playbook. You know, the ladies playbook. I will answer ANY question you have about the man playbook.

 

Just rat out your girlfriends who aren't on here and ADMIT or DENY that women can often times be NAIVE and/or OBLIVIOUS. (see below)

 

"I didn't realize he liked me like that."

"I genuinely thought he just wanted to be friends."

"We are just work friends - nothing more"

"I didn't realize my cleavage was showing so badly and that guy was staring."

"I only went with him to the football game because he needed someone to take that extra ticket."

"He sends xoxoxo to all his female friends."

"I didn't realize that you could see up my skirt so easily."

"Yes my best friends brother who is 2 years older is going to the Beach with us and his family but NOTHING will happen."

"Yes, it's a singles dance club, but we have to go there and drink until 2:00am because Beth is single, so she doesn't want to go to the movies."

 

Are women saying these things 100% serious and that they believe them? Or do they think men are dumb enough to believe the above statements? (just examples but you've all seen it)

 

Just tell me the truth. Do women REALLY buy this crap? Or do they crave/love the attention and can't help but allow it?

 

TELL ME TRUE!!!

 

(Male playbook bullet points: 3 F's...Feed me, Have Fun with me, and make love with me...any guy who is more complicated isn't worth your time as he probably has mommy or self esteem issues.)

 

You got our playbook, now give me yours!!! Please!!!

[sweetkiwi]

Well sorry to disappoint but most women are all those things at some point. It's a matter of being oblivious or young or genuinely confused.

 

I can only speak for myself. I really believe the best in people unless they prove otherwise. Once they show their true selves it is then up to me what to do.

 

The female playbook that i live by is;

 

1) first feel the guy out. Watch him. Pay attention. (Not stalking).

2) approach If interested. Talk. Be myself.

3) If more interested after conversation ask for number. If only mildly interested offer mine.

4) answer when they call!!!

5) dont be cray cray and text 24/7

6) set up a date or move on (interested guys WILL ask for a date)

7) have dates have fun

8) when i know i like a guy a lot will cook for him

9) then bed him

10) be myself. Be awesome.

 

Most guys dont get to step 6

[chucksagent]

Well said sweetkiwi...i totally FORGOT to mention that....

 

Some girls will be like "Why hasn't he asked me out yet?!?" or "Why isn't he reaching out to me?"

 

95% of the time, it's as simple as HE IS NOT INTERESTED. What you said about the guy will make the effort or show interest, you are CORRECT. Men aren't complicated. Some women don't wanna face rejection or project their being complicated onto the man.

 

If a man likes you, he will call. If a man likes you, he will answer you call/text. If a man likes you, he will ask you out. DO NOT confuse simple stuff like this! Lol.