What Should I Do?

[bgfrombg]

[color=red][/color]Hello all. I'm new here and just wanted to really vent my frustrations with love.

 

I was with the same girl for 4 years, we have a son together, he'll be a year old this month. About a month ago she came home one night and up and said she needed a couple of weeks to think about things, she wasn't happy anymore. She waited about 3 days and told me it was over, she just wanted to be single. But I think she is lying to me. She swore on our son there was no one else, but I don't know what to believe. There are other details, but I won't go into them right now.

 

I started talking to one of my sisters friends, we'll just call her C. C seems pretty nice and I do like her and would like to get to know her better. She has a daughter the same age as my son and is as cute as can be. But she is talking with another guy, they've been talking a couple of months and she is confused.

 

What should I do? Do I leave C alone, or do I let her know how interested in her I am? My family and friends believe my ex will come back to me, she'll realize she's made a mistake, but do I take her back, can I trust her? Is it wrong of me to even be talking to someone else when we've only been seperated a month? Please everyone, I need some help.

[honey2005]

It's not wrong of you to be talking to someone else when you've been seperated a month, she's the one that left you. I think you should talk to C. about how you feel and see how things go from there.

[red-kal]

trust is the most important element in a relationship, without trust do you really have love?

if you think it is possible to trust someone again, remeber it will not be like the first time around cause this person is already starting in the negative zone.

 

call the new person make friends, it couldn't hurt,though, only pursue romantic relationship with new one when the old one is definately out of the picture.

 

hope this helps, feel free to disagree.

 

Good luck

[bgfrombg]

Well the old g/f will always be in the picture in some form since she is the mother of my son. Right now we've been able to get along and not fight, but maybe once, but I'm still gonna see her constantly, but I know what you mean. I know it's over between us, and I'm scared I may just be using C as a rebound girl, maybe to try to make the ex jealous, but I feel that I do like C a lot even though we've only talked a little, and that we seem to have a lot in common. Yes, I loved my ex, still do, probably always will. Some people say that I'll always love her cuz she's the mother of my child, but I think I would always love her regardless, but I believe she would be easier to let go of if we didn't have a son together.