babygirl13 Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Hi,first time poster here. I am stuck in a sticky situation and have no idea what to do. I have done so much thinking and debating in my head that i feel as if my brain is fried. So i dated this guy for two years. on Christmas he gave me the most beautiful ring and said that one day he would put in on my finger and it would mean something. We were too young to marry but we always told people we were engaged. We were only in high school at the time and i was leaving for college. I found out that he had cheated on me. I was devastated, considering we spent every weekend together and were "engaged". We talked things out and decided to stay together. He was my world. Never had i ever smile and had so much fun when i was with him. He was my other half and i couldn't imagine life without him. We stayed together for a long time until once again he gave into temptation and cheated. We broke up for good. I started talking to other guys but no one compared. Its been two years without him and i heard he was in a relationship. I myself became in a relationship with an amazing guy. It was like i had this hole that he seemed to fill. My friends noticed that i was happy again and that made them happy. Not too long after i heard my ex broke-up with his girlfriend and what do you know, he starts texting me. i told him i was in a relationship and he drove up to my school and we talked. It was amazing how i realized i missed him so much. Feeling and memories were definitely brought back and now i cant seem to get him outta my head. My new boyfriend know me and my ex still talk and hang out. Hes actually okay with it, which to me is strange. My ex says hes done alot of growing up and just wants me back in his life. He txts me everyday and its like we are still together. I am utterly confused on what to do. Do i take him back? He says hes ready for a family with me, but can i trust him? Do i stay with my boyfriend? I will always love my ex no matter what. he is my biggest weakness. I need some kind of advice. Both my head and heart hurt Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Um...he cheated on you more than once...so I think that tells you all you need to know... Comes to the point where you make yourself the fool by running back to this boy...he's no man. Don't be a fool who cannot see the picture and control her emotions. Lead not yourself by emotions, but by thought. Be a master of your emotions and do the right thing...or... Get cheated on again, cause you live for those happy moments, not the truth about him...who he is... No one compared to a cheater? How odd....indeed. you miss the him who made you happy, not the him who he is...a cheater. Link to post Share on other sites
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