ow9 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 LADY! Oh, my.* I am SO sorry you are going through this. Yes, our situations are slightly different, but I was you…a month and a half ago.* I begged, I pleaded, I did everything I could think of for him to tell his W.* First, he couldn’t because he was out of state on business.* Then, when he did return home, he wanted her to find a job before he broke the news.* Then, his grandfather died.* Then….then….then…. My A finally ended when he “told her.”* Yes, that’s in quotes because I don’t have any proof he ever did actually tell his W.* We still talked, for a few weeks after D-Day, but then he said after talking to a lawyer, he couldn’t stand to lose all of the money he’s worked so hard for. Yeah, you’re “working” real hard on all these business trips, aren’t you exMM? I know there’s A LOT of OW/OM who aren’t remorseful.* They hate the BS (which, I will NEVER understand this).* But seeing the run-around he gave me over the course of one year makes me wonder what kind of run around he’s been giving his W for 18.* That’s why I wrote the letter that I did. I absolutely feel your pain Lady.* I can promise you it gets better. When exMM left me, I went on a 3 day binge.* Cried my bloody eyes out.* But you will realize that not only does his W deserve better….you do too… Link to post Share on other sites
Author LadyRecovery Posted January 18, 2013 Author Share Posted January 18, 2013 Didn't you say he wasn't going home for the two weekends this month, which you thought was odd? And now he suddenly a death in the family and will be gone for a week instead of the two weekends? He's most likely on vacation with his wife. Yes, and it was odd. I was there when he got the call, helped him book the flight the next day, and took him to the airport. Who knows, he said his BS wasn't going (I didn't ask this). I assume she went, especially if a family member passed. Link to post Share on other sites
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