Justtiredofit Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 1) WW tells me our marriage is at an end after telling me she still has feelings for her "crush" that I demanded she put down. 2) I blow the fantasy to pieces by EXPOSING IT. EAP didn't even know she had feelings for him (he's one of my best friends), and tells her to leave him alone, he wants no part of her in any way. She tells me it still doesn't matter, she's "free" now and is "at peace" with going through a divorce. I said "I want nothing more to do with you." She didn't like that. 3) I move forward with the divorce. (which will be over in a matter of days) 4) She asks what the hurry is when I dropped the papers off to her. 5) She gets angry when I won't answer her calls or talk to her. 6) She gets angry today when I told her my attorney will be sending the final divorce decree in the mail. WTF???? What the hell is wrong with her? I thought she wanted a damn divorce??? Link to post Share on other sites
UpwardForward Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 1) WW tells me our marriage is at an end after telling me she still has feelings for her "crush" that I demanded she put down. 2) I blow the fantasy to pieces by EXPOSING IT. EAP didn't even know she had feelings for him (he's one of my best friends), and tells her to leave him alone, he wants no part of her in any way. She tells me it still doesn't matter, she's "free" now and is "at peace" with going through a divorce. I said "I want nothing more to do with you." She didn't like that. 3) I move forward with the divorce. (which will be over in a matter of days) 4) She asks what the hurry is when I dropped the papers off to her. 5) She gets angry when I won't answer her calls or talk to her. 6) She gets angry today when I told her my attorney will be sending the final divorce decree in the mail. WTF???? What the hell is wrong with her? I thought she wanted a damn divorce??? I forgot, did you ever tell you she wanted a divorce? Married people (especially women) who want to fool around .. or fantasize, like the security of the marriage - while pursuing the outside relationship(s). I know of two women who were such planners - they arranged the finalization of their divorces contingent on their immediate marriages to their APs. Link to post Share on other sites
ataloss8270 Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Sounds to me like she either doesn't know what she wants, or doesn't know what to do without a man in her life so she's keeping you on the back burner just in case. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Don't underestimate the ability of a woman to set you up. The whole thing could be a ruse and your friend was merely a patsy. They can be unparalleled masters of guile and deceit. There may even be an unknown third party involved. Cynical divorced guy here. YMMV. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 My radar states your 'friend' isn't as innocent as he claims. Link to post Share on other sites
trippi1432 Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 I would say that since this OP has 10 threads on LS in this forum he is either seeking attention or feeling rather guilty of his actions.....OP, one thread or you just get what you are giving out and any woman would run from that because it is inconsistent and not seeking help but validation. Link to post Share on other sites
UpwardForward Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 I forgot, did she(correction) ever tell you she wanted a divorce? Married people (especially women) who want to fool around .. or fantasize, like the security of the marriage - while pursuing the outside relationship(s). I know of two women who were such planners - they arranged the finalization of their divorces contingent on their immediate marriages to their APs. So sorry. edit first line question from my other post: Did She ever tell you she wanted a divorce? Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Sounds to me like she is having a temper tamtrum because she wanted to control everything. You have ruined that, you big meanie. Dude, get your divorce and get a better woman. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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