Necris Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 I just don't understand how someone could prefer a limb over being validated, experiencing people being attracted to you, having sex, having sexual experiences, being with someone you love and who loves you back, and experiencing giving and receiving physical touch. Since I never experienced that I can only go by imagination, my limbs however, I know how useful they are even though one of my hands doesn't work perfectly I still want to keep it. Plus my life is going alright without all of that so far, though I would like to experience it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Losing a limb would be absolutely horrible. Think of everything you do that requires two hands. Wow okay. Maybe I'm in the minority afterall, but then again, a lot of peeps on LS don't exactly seem to be living on planet Earth. Link to post Share on other sites
SilentVoice Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Yes I can. Be for real. Like really think about it. If you can't get sex now - you think you are going to get sex and attraction with missing body parts? L.S logic Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 What do you mean by burning up your life with a nebulous other? All the time you're spending focusing on this issue/dynamic/desire/need/want, etc, etc.... It's the 'nebulous other'; undefined, elusive, the nether. Think about where those feelings go. Poof. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SilentVoice Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Wow okay. Maybe I'm in the minority afterall, but then again, a lot of peeps on LS don't exactly seem to be living on planet Earth. Well, what planet do you live on? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Like jerking off! Well you can do that with one hand...right, right? Ross is someone offering you sex for your limb or something? Yeah I don't need two hands to do that. And I'd be getting sex (since it's a sex for arm equal exchange) so jerking off wouldn't be needed. I was thinking more along the lines of typing on a keyboard and driving. Link to post Share on other sites
Necris Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Wow okay. Maybe I'm in the minority afterall, but then again, a lot of peeps on LS don't exactly seem to be living on planet Earth. For me, why would I chose something I've never experienced over a limb? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Like jerking off! Well you can do that with one hand...right, right? Ross is someone offering you sex for your limb or something? Coming from someone who get's lots of sex, and physical affection I bet. Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 I'm not sure if this exact question was asked on here before, but I know there was one that was asked which was at least similar. (I tried doing a search for it but nothing came up). So yeah, you have a choice, losing a limb, or being celibate for the rest of your life, not even getting to experience someone being attracted to you, in other words, being Incel for the rest of your life. What would you choose? I'd rather lose a limb. I choose lifelong celibacy. It's not too much different from the way my life has been this far, so it wouldn't be a major adjustment. On the other hand, losing certain limbs could definitely complicate my ability to appease my sexual urges. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Be for real. Like really think about it. If you can't get sex now - you think you are going to get sex and attraction with missing body parts? L.S logic What on Earth are you talking about, I never said I would get those things with missing body parts. Have you been sniffing glue? Link to post Share on other sites
SilentVoice Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Yeah I don't need two hands to do that. And I'd be getting sex (since it's a sex for arm equal exchange) so jerking off wouldn't be needed. I was thinking more along the lines of typing on a keyboard and driving. I only quoted you wasn't really asking but to think arms can be used for all these good things. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Well, what planet do you live on? Earth, obviously not the same planet that you live on. Link to post Share on other sites
SilentVoice Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 What on Earth are you talking about, I never said I would get those things with missing body parts. Have you been sniffing glue? No but I am pretty sure you have been sniffing bath salts. Don't do that before driving ok. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 For me, why would I chose something I've never experienced over a limb? Because you desire it more than a limb. But obviously you've made it clear that you don't. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 No but I am pretty sure you have been sniffing bath salts. Don't do that before driving ok. If you think it's me who has been doing the sniffing, then it shows how deluded you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Wow, this topic has certainly been an eye opener. Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Yes, an eye-opener for moderation, too. On-topic and civil folks. Take a breath. No one is going to lose a limb here, I hope Link to post Share on other sites
Necris Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 (edited) I give up, I embrace Incelisim. I mean, it's no big deal being this way right, afterall, having a limb is 'way' more important. Honestly I think its probably best to embrace it, and stop thinking about women, sex, and relationships. Unfortunately your mind doesn't want you to, but if you could you would feel alot happier as you go on other endeavors while everyone else wastes time, money, and energy on sex. Edited January 5, 2013 by Necris Link to post Share on other sites
Eclypse Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Sign me up for some Incel. There's so many beatiful things to enjoy in life that having four limbs makes easier to experience. I'll get over the Incel. However, perhaps my viewpoint is clouded, as I get regular affection and sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Eclypse Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 How many girls have you actually asked out? So instead of thinking of losing a limb why not think about going out on a limb and losing your celibacy. Please do respond to this. I don't think you've told us so far (as far as I can tell) but it's crucial. If you don't ask anyone out then you can't classify as Incel... Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 Ross, I think I understand what you're trying to say here, but you perhaps asked the wrong question. You have made the thread about a choice between lack of sex or a physical disability. Sex is great but not that great! Maybe if you asked people who are in a loving relationship whether they would rather lose their partner or a limb you will get a different response. A life without any level of love, intimacy, companionship, friendship and emotional support wouldn't be the kind of life I would choose, regardless of the amount of sex or number of limbs involved! I also think it's very easy for those who have loved and lost to say they are happy alone - especially if they have been badly hurt. Love is not one of those things you never miss if you've never had it. Love is what makes the world go round! FTR - when your confidence improves you will make some girl a great boyfriend. You are one of the most genuine guys on LS. You don't need to give away any limbs. Keep working on 'you' and it probably won't be long before you meet someone special. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 So yeah, you have a choice, losing a limb, or being celibate for the rest of your life, not even getting to experience someone being attracted to you, in other words, being Incel for the rest of your life. Ahh. That's all bs. If you want to meet a girl, you have to go out and do it. You have to put your fears aside. Quit being a pussy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
trevzilla Posted January 5, 2013 Share Posted January 5, 2013 celibate. When I was married sex amounted to a very small fraction of my life (granted my ex wife didn't like sex that much) whereas I need my limbs to do many of the things I enjoy all the time. I've been single for 4 years and I may never meet anyone anyway, but guaranteed I'll be doing sports and the things I enjoy for years to come. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ross MwcFan Posted January 5, 2013 Author Share Posted January 5, 2013 Ross, I think I understand what you're trying to say here, but you perhaps asked the wrong question. You have made the thread about a choice between lack of sex or a physical disability. Sex is great but not that great! Maybe if you asked people who are in a loving relationship whether they would rather lose their partner or a limb you will get a different response. A life without any level of love, intimacy, companionship, friendship and emotional support wouldn't be the kind of life I would choose, regardless of the amount of sex or number of limbs involved! I also think it's very easy for those who have loved and lost to say they are happy alone - especially if they have been badly hurt. Love is not one of those things you never miss if you've never had it. Love is what makes the world go round! FTR - when your confidence improves you will make some girl a great boyfriend. You are one of the most genuine guys on LS. You don't need to give away any limbs. Keep working on 'you' and it probably won't be long before you meet someone special. Thanks LT. I don't mean the choice between losing a limb and a lack of sex, I mean the choice between losing a limb and being Incel, Incel doesn't just mean a lack of sex (at least not how I see it), it also means no love, no relationships, no experiencing the giving and recieving of physical touch with someone you're atrracted to, no kissing, ect. I should've said Incel instead of celibate in the title. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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