road Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Just a simple question. Why does the other guy have anything to do with anything at all? Why are you making excuses for the female? Why is the other guy responsible, vs. the girlfriend who didn't behave in a manner that demonstrated self control and consideration of you? Why: he kissed his GF. What excuses? Why OM is responsible? Your quote of him he was not blaming OM, he was wanting to know if it was a good idea to ask the OM for the truth. Which is a bad idea. You read things into what you quoted him saying that are not there. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Girlfriend and best friend went out and meet a couple of guys. All 4 of them go back to best friends flat and each does there thing. Girlfriend after lying constantly, playing down finally admitted it to me When I presented her with evidence. I am currently finding it hard obviously, but it's not as hard as it felt when I was with her when she played it as just a kiss, I was constantly doubting the truth; hence why this topic started. I just wish she would stop contacting me now. Ignoring her and expressing my anger is not working. Sorry if I was unclear. When I first started this topic it was only known to me as a kiss but it's progressed on to more. I'll ask again, if you are going to give her a pass, does this mean she still gets to go out and party without you? Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Sorry but I can't agree more with Road on this... if she cheats on you now... then imagine when you are in a ltr with her.... People here are relly harsh. She only kissed him, she was super drunk and shes happy with him now, remorseful, not acting fishy... I bet the vast majority of men on this forum will eventually be put ina situation where they can/will drunkenly kiss another girl and feel horrible about it too...unless you never leave your hourse Link to post Share on other sites
Darren Steez Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 People here are relly harsh. She only kissed him, she was super drunk and shes happy with him now, remorseful, not acting fishy... I bet the vast majority of men on this forum will eventually be put ina situation where they can/will drunkenly kiss another girl and feel horrible about it too...unless you never leave your hourse drunken bang dude, she had a drunken bang Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 (edited) drunken bang dude, she had a drunken bang Sorry, somehow missed that. Yeah, if she said she only kissed him and actually had sex with him, move on...no need to tolerate that crap. Edited January 24, 2013 by pbjbear Link to post Share on other sites
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