Woggle Posted January 8, 2013 Share Posted January 8, 2013 If a marriage is truly over it's better to rip the band aid right off and move on with life. Why drag it out? Link to post Share on other sites
Justtiredofit Posted January 8, 2013 Share Posted January 8, 2013 Well, for me I was upset at my STBXW's gaslighting me when I tried to expose her little "crush" which was with one of my best friends. When I exposed it she lied & made it look like I made the whole thing up. So I ignored her for 2 weeks (been separated 4 weeks). So on Sunday, she sent another whiny text to me and I asked her if she wanted the divorce. She knew I was reaching out to see if that's what she wanted. Well, now just last night I found out that she told him yesterday (Monday) that she wanted a relationship with him. He called & told me about her texts. He sent a rejection reply & reiterated how he wanted nothing to do with her or the situation as stated before. I'm so pissed right now I don't know what to do. I started to be nice to her again and this is what she does. I don't know if I should tell her I want nothing more to do with her, or just ignore her again. I'm moving on with the divorce now. There will be no turning back. In this case, the quicker the divorce happens, the better. Link to post Share on other sites
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