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I know it is destroying me day by day. I even look at porn with someone that looks like her being plowed to add to the pain which is truely fuc*ed up.

 

Why torture yourself more? Arent you in enough pain? What's the point if it's not making you feel better?

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Mme. Chaucer

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Could you just leave LS?

 

There are people on here seeking serious advice and you are a pest taking up valuable time that could have been given to others.

 

Admins/mods please ban him.

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Could you just leave LS?

 

There are people on here seeking serious advice and you are a pest taking up valuable time that could have been given to others.

 

Admins/mods please ban him.

 

 

i give advice as well as take it mate. if i was with my ex i wouldnt be here.

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i keep getting urges.

 

Well for heaven's sake act on them rather than constantly sit there hiding behind your emails which have got you NOWHERE.

 

You keep saying you're going to do loads of things and the only one of those things you ever seem to be able to do is write emails.

 

Either sit there and feel content to email her for the rest of your life, or, get up off your a** and finally do something about it

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i give advice as well as take it mate.

 

Frederickkk, you have NEVER TAKEN ANY ADVICE from us, that's our biggest problem with you. You just don't give a damn about what we say. When you read something uncomfortable, you just open a new thread. You are too weak to face the truth that that poor girl has moved on and SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Acutally, I'm pretty sure that she just pities you.

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i want to get down on 1 knee and propose

 

Get down on both knees.

It's easier to dodge being kicked in the nuts that way....

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Frederickkk, you have NEVER TAKEN ANY ADVICE from us, that's our biggest problem with you. You just don't give a damn about what we say. When you read something uncomfortable, you just open a new thread. You are too weak to face the truth that that poor girl has moved on and SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Acutally, I'm pretty sure that she just pities you.

 

I don't recall him giving advice either.

And even if he did - do you really think it would be any good?

Based on his poor record.....methinks perhaps it might be better to seek a sefond opinion.

 

Fred - quit messing with us. Either do it, or quit whining, but put us out of our misery....

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I don't recall him giving advice either.

And even if he did - do you really think it would be any good?

Based on his poor record.....methinks perhaps it might be better to seek a sefond opinion.

 

Fred - quit messing with us. Either do it, or quit whining, but put us out of our misery....

 

He has been giving advice, especially on the break-ups threads, and, basically, it's when someone asks "will I ever get over this?" his advice is generally along the lines of "No, you will never lose the love, give up, you're f***ed"

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He has been giving advice, especially on the break-ups threads, and, basically, it's when someone asks "will I ever get over this?" his advice is generally along the lines of "No, you will never lose the love, give up, you're f***ed"

 

 

Is it worth giving him his own advice??

 

Hey, frederickkk:

 

"No, you will never lose the love, give up, you're f***ed"!!

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Is it worth giving him his own advice??

 

Hey, frederickkk:

 

"No, you will never lose the love, give up, you're f***ed"!!

 

Unfortunately, as we've seen, he does truely believes he's permantly f***ed, he'll never get over it and that he'll never give up, all of which, ultimately, will be his downfall.

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Well, I've actually put him on ignore, because if anyone embodies the poor me, 'same, old same-old' it's him.

He's goading members, and frankly, I believe all this argy-bargy is about as helpful to him as a chocolate fire-guard.....

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He has been giving advice, especially on the break-ups threads, and, basically, it's when someone asks "will I ever get over this?" his advice is generally along the lines of "No, you will never lose the love, give up, you're f***ed"

 

Being relatively new here and currently bored I've been reading through past threads, getting to know some of you better, etc. Fred commented something like this on one of my posts - how no, it only gets worse.

 

It caught me off guard since the reason I asked if it gets any better is more like asking for comfort - you know? I am not an idiot, I know things get better, I know I have to move on, etc...many of us know - but it's the comfort and knowing we are not alone that really makes it feel a bit better, hearing other's stories etc. Reading through many threads I get that...but not from the ones from Frederickkk...although must admit, it is entertaining (which is also sad since I'm sure he really is in pain).

 

FRED - YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON...you are really acting psycho! We all feel the pain, want to contact our ex's, want to make them come crawling back and change, etc...but come on, live your life. This woman does NOT want you and NO ONE will ever want you if you get this addicted and obsessive! It's gross!

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Those kinds of posters, really get my goat.

 

They're miserable, depressed and inconsolable - but they resolutely ignore everyone's advice, wallow in self-pity and do two-parts of three-fifths of bugger-all to actually motivate themselves to do anything to implement any kind of remedy to help themselves along.

 

We've had a few on here - They're emotional leeches.

Nobody else can possibly have it as bad as them, and when they contribute to a thread where the OP is feeling anything from 'a bit down' to 'in acute torment and pain', they contribute with something like "Oh yeah, I know... I'm *adds something to trump the OP and convince everyone they're far worse off... not healing.... stuck.... in the same boat, but it's leaking*...

 

I always feel like replying "This isn't about YOU for a change!" or "Go start your own pity party!"

 

But I just can't do it.

 

So basically, I resort to ignoring them.

They're Troll-oll-olls of a different kind - but they sure get on my nerves....!!

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No news is good news, me thinks. We have not heard from him in a while and his last thread was close to him getting it. Maybe his absence is a good sign. I hope so, for his sake.

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