katie79 Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Does anyone here think it's bad we are on LOVESHACK? Especially for marriage/getting married issues. The more I write on here the more I think, "why am I with this man if he gives me a headache enough to ask people I don't know about why he's avoiding marrying me". Does anyone else feel this way? Wouldn't someone who truly loves us not give us such an issue of getting married? Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I think everyone is here for different reasons. For me it's a place to read about and dicuss heavy issues with people who aren't involved. Sometimes even good friends and family are too close to be objective. Then again that doesn't mean everyone here is always objective either. Kinda like group therapy. I know I don't have to worry about some of my more spastic thoughts getting around to people that I know. Bounce ideas around. Also a great place just to vent. Sometimes writing things down adds a new perspective. Then you hear a lot of opinions. This can be good, or not. Link to post Share on other sites
binturong Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Because I get bored at work and this is something to read that is interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author katie79 Posted August 19, 2004 Author Share Posted August 19, 2004 Bintrong- For the most part, work is boring for me too. So I come on here a lot to see if anyone has a bf as ridiculous as mine. Link to post Share on other sites
wideawake Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I just like the beer nuts... Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Originally posted by binturong Because I get bored at work and this is something to read that is interesting. Oh yeah, that too. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I just accidentally found it after a pretty bad break up and reading other people's problems helped me get over being hurt pretty fast. I decided to stick around and try to help people the way others helped me. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 If LS wasn't around I don't know what I would do at work. I also found it by accident but what a great accident. And of course I stay because I love the bunnies! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I like the people here. I like making the people here laugh. I like giving the people here my opinion or advice. I have no relationship problems right now, as I have no relationship at all, but it's still nice for me to come here. Got me thru the worst time I've ever experienced in my life, and I hope to get others thru the same. Link to post Share on other sites
She's Come Undone Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I'm obsessive compulsive and always need to make sure everyone else in the world thinks I'm doing the right thing all the time. And the makes me feel good down there! Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 It's those big paychecks they keep sending me each week! Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 I like looking at wideawake's Mr. Heatmeiser picture. But seriously, I have the tendency to think I'm overreacting about stuff. Its good for me to ask everyone here, and usually I discover that I wasn't. Link to post Share on other sites
wideawake Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama I like looking at wideawake's Mr. Heatmeiser picture. I will commence with my small crush now... Link to post Share on other sites
Author katie79 Posted August 19, 2004 Author Share Posted August 19, 2004 You sound like me! Is that OCD where you feel like you need everyone's approval before you make any kind of decision? I guess I have it. Go see my miserable threads about my bf and his failure to keep a promise and commit. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 Why Are We On Loveshack? 1). Well, I have issues. Too embarrassing to raise with a counselor or a friend. I like anonymity. 2). Other people have issues. Too embarrassing to raise with a counselor or friend. These issues provide optimum entertainment. -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
ladyangel Posted August 19, 2004 Share Posted August 19, 2004 It's somehow comforting to know there's always someone who's worse off than you. Link to post Share on other sites
dnm1010 Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 my boyfriend is addicted to porn. he has a very strong self will and has gained control of his old habit. but occasionally he does slip. its not near as bad as most of the stories i have read here. he slipped one time this summer which was last week. i am very lucky to have him as a bf because he is very honest and i know when i ask him if he has viewed porn he answers me honestly. well i found out he looked at porn once last week. not to masterbate- just messed aroudn with a couple of sites. he hadnt messed up since april so i was very distraught. but i always made it a point that we talk abotu these things and made sure he knows hes not goign throug them alone. thats when he told me that he is addicted to porn and hes been working on quitting for years. at first i didnt believe him so i looked it on the internet. i also looked for some information and tips on how to cope with this situation. and thats how i got here. when i read peoples posts i realized how much worst some of these poeples situations are. i felt like i can share my experience adn way of dealing with situations and so thats why im here. its also nice to know that youre not the only one who gets upset over certain things. and its nice to read hwo other poeple handle situations and feel about them. i thank everyone who shares their stories on here. i think it takes a certain level of bravery for people to open up. i wish everyone the best in their situations too. Link to post Share on other sites
Anais Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Remember I was a child sitting in a bus for that long trip. I was watching people on the street , so many, so different…I had the wish to be able to read what is going on in their minds, in their life, their thoughts.. I was always interested in people. Even I cannot effort the time to be active here I love to read the posts. Also I am improving my English! Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Originally posted by DerangedAngel These issues provide optimum entertainment. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 I initally came on here because my now wife, at the time was my gf. I had problems in dealing with her ex and needed reassurance that the things she was doing was normal. I was pretty insecure, due to alot of the things that were going on. I grew confidence in myself with the help of people on here, and the counselor. Reading ALOT of posts on here, along with my previous experience in relationships I am mainly on here now to help people. It's a good feeling when people PM me with their problems, or a little message admiring my view on things and the advice I give. It's something I can give back to a place which has help me out alot. Link to post Share on other sites
flannelpajamas Posted September 11, 2004 Share Posted September 11, 2004 I love coming here because there's great gossip! It's better than the soaps. Also, I guess this is kind of evil, but I like reading other people's problems because then I realize that mine aren't as significant as I thought. Link to post Share on other sites
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