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sanlucascerveza

My wife of almost 3 years had a previous short term marriage with an alcoholic who abused her and cheated on her multiple times. She always talked about how much she hated him. She had him and his whole family blocked on Facebook for as long as I could remember. I recently logged into her Facebook (she had given me the password) and notice she unblocked him. What in the hell could this mean. Also should mention we have been fighting a bit the past month.

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Attention People Posting Questions:

 

Quit asking asking us for answers we do not have, but you can easily obtain yourself by asking the correct person.

 

Log off the computer and talk to your wife to find out exactly what it means.

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Attention People Posting Questions:

 

Quit asking asking us for answers we do not have, but you can easily obtain yourself by asking the correct person.

 

Log off the computer and talk to your wife to find out exactly what it means.

 

It's true, suspicions, extrapolations & lack of communication is terrible, likely you are making a mountain of a molehill by feeding into this vicious circle of uncertainty, the best thing you can do is talk to her, finding the right time and context of course... talk talk talk, don't stay in the dark, because if it bothers you that much the longer you leave it the worse it will become in your mind, even if it meant nothing to her.

 

My guess, for what it's worth, maybe she wanted to see a little reminder of how bad she had it, to get a little morale boost of how good things are now in comparison, even though you may be fighting at the moment etc. I know that's why I occasionally look up my ex online, lol! Kind of a "wow, things might be a bit rough right now, but man did it suck being with that b**"

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