Vaughn2885 Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 (edited) I currently met a lady who quickly became a good friend of mine, one day while we were hanging out she started telling me that she felt sorry for her other friend named Amber. When I asked her why she handed me her phone and asked me to read the text messages. In the text messages, Amber says that she is in a relationship with a woman that she loves, but that they are having financial problems and had to move into a two bedroom townhome with her mother. In addition, she has to share the living room with the woman that she is with because her sister and her sisters' husband stay there a well. So it's five adults and a teenager (their lil brother) in this crowded two bedroom townhome. The problem I have with this is that Amber is really Lattice, who is my girlfriend. We have been living together for about four years, and we live in a three bedroom two full bath house. She doesn't work, only goes to school. My new friend doesn't know that she's led to her, she doesn't even know that we're dating. I knew it was my girlfriend because I saw the picture next to her text in addition, the text were from my girlfriends phone. I am very upset and confused, I do a lot to make sure she has whatever she wants. Edited January 9, 2013 by Vaughn2885 Link to post Share on other sites
mavendark Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 Before you jump into conclusions, maybe you should try to clear this up and figure out what the situation is? There could be many ways that it could be misunderstood, for example she could have lent someone else her phone. Maybe you can ask the lady where she met this friend (Amber/Lattice)? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vaughn2885 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Share Posted January 9, 2013 I wish I could find out she lent someone her phone... But looking at the times of the text, she was in bed with me. Her phone is her life line, to the point where she keeps it in her bra Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 I do a lot to make sure she has whatever she wants. At first blush, it appears she seeks similar treatment from others too. Unknown if she's a professional at it. Four years and living together is a long time. A ghost app might authenticate/verify/invalidate the information from your new friend. How exactly did this person come to be your new friend? It seems odd how coincidental this all is. she keeps it <phone> in her bra Hmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
mavendark Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 I wish I could find out she lent someone her phone... But looking at the times of the text, she was in bed with me. Her phone is her life line, to the point where she keeps it in her bra Do you see her texting all the time and stuff? Are you sure she's not doing this for a friend? I'm not sure why she would even lie to other people about her name... that's kind of weird. How exactly did this person come to be your new friend? It seems odd how coincidental this all is. Agreed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vaughn2885 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Share Posted January 9, 2013 I know she posted an ad on craigslist looking for friends, as did I. . I'm assuming she emailed my girlfriend like she emailed me and responded to my ad. I later went through her phone while she was asleep as I thought that she wad cheating. But just like the text in my friends phone, nothing even hinted at her cheating or even flirting. It's almost like she just wants a lot of attention on her. I really don't know what to make of it... Link to post Share on other sites
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