luckygirl120721 Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 I've been dating this amazing man for about 5 months. I knew him about 10 years ago and we wanted to date each other back then, but neither one of us would say anything. We lost contact during that time and each got married and recently suffered through painful divorces. He told me that it took him months to get the courage to get back in contact with me and that he never told me how he felt 10 years ago because he didn't feel that he was good enough for me and didn't want to hold me back. In the beginning he was able to open up a little bit about his feelings towards me(he missed me, I was the girl for him, things like that)... But he is having troubles now. I know he is still into me...that's not really a question, but I'm not sure why all of the sudden he has trouble opening up. I think he was close to telling me that he loved me, but then stopped. He tells me that he has no fears (except of spiders), he has no insecurities and that he cannot express his feelings. I don't believe that he has no insecurities because he would say things like...I guess I need to go to the gym to make sure I look good for you, I'm not sure why you think I'm so hot because I have this huge nose, etc. But he says that he doesn't mean anything that he says when it comes to that stuff...that he is simply teasing. What's up with him? What can I do to work through this with him? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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