lovehurtz23 Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 he says i shouldnt bother him while hes on his way to work , all i say is have a good day and i love you . but today i asked him to next time put his plate away he yelled at me saying i was wrong for that and annoying and that he doesnt want me to contact him while hes on his way to work am i wrong for feeling that he's cheating, he gets upset when i tell him that a old friend from highschool asked to buy my truck he said he was mad at me because i didnt tell him that a man was trying to talk to me ,i get these strong urges he is cheating Link to post Share on other sites
Sporty Girl Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 Follow your gut instincts and intuotion. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurtz23 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Share Posted January 9, 2013 in the beginning of our relationship i was the same person he fell in love with .. supposedly.. but my bestfriend who happens to be a man my boyfriend had a problem with the way we communicated .. texted all lot well so did my bff girlfriend but everytime we argued i walked away my boyfriend accused me of going to him , so i told my bff we had to stop tlking as much, but its been time where he hugged his ex and aske her why did she stop talking to him i spoke up and asked him why does she matter?he said i was out of line , im starting to feel he want his cake and eat it too sometimes but i cant do that I wasnt raised that way i was raised to be equal to my partner . not to be picked at everthing i do , if i eat, its too much if i dont , i dont eat at all. if i stay in the house , im boring and need to to et out more if i go somewhere its wierd and i get 30000000 questions and if i answer any question differently im lying and up to something, i need to know why is he behaving this way? Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 i keep my mind 100% on my work at times, if this is what he's like, then so be it - it's doubtful that you really need his attention badly right there and then, tbh you'll have to communicate when he's less busy, or date a less ambitious man maybe he's a cheat. proof? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurtz23 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Share Posted January 9, 2013 no i dont need his attention i always have texted him i love him or have a good day just to let him kno i care but when he left today just happen to be different because i couldnt catch him ,it was about him leaving dishes in our living room , i dont mind cleaning up but i just need him to respect me dont just leave stuff everywhere like im a maid and if i dont say it then i will forget, and he gets deffensive like im trying to fight but thats the farthest from my mind. im pregnant and tired . Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 no i dont need his attention i always have texted him i love him or have a good day just to let him kno i care but when he left today just happen to be different because i couldnt catch him ,it was about him leaving dishes in our living room , i dont mind cleaning up but i just need him to respect me dont just leave stuff everywhere like im a maid and if i dont say it then i will forget, and he gets deffensive like im trying to fight but thats the farthest from my mind. im pregnant and tired . the two underlined statements don't give a uniform message a maid cleans up, but a tired maid doesn't have to bother, i wouldn't Link to post Share on other sites
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