suarez Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 I work away from home for 9 days at a time and i have just started talking to a girl on eharmony. Since she gave me her number we have spoken twice on the phone for an hour each time. I haven't asked her out yet because I know I wont be home for over a week. Our communication has been fairly frequent. A few emails on eharmony over a couple of days and we have spoken twice on the phone in the last four days. My question is do I keep calling her every couple of days just to touch base or leave it for a few days and then ask her out for a specific date? I usually time it better so I can ask her out during the first phone call and set the date a few days later and then go away to work and ask her out again while I am at work. She is obviously interested but too many calls before the first date can take the excitement out of it. I also don't want to appear uninterested. Link to post Share on other sites
Brunettie Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 Does she know that you are away for work for 9 days at a time? If so, then it is fine for you to just ask her out the next time you call her. I wouldn't just wait several more days to call her. You can call her in a day or two and ask her out then. Then you can call again the day before the date to confirm. If she does not know about your work situation, maybe you can explain that in an email or the next time you talk on the phone and it comes up. She will understand, and not think you are uninterested or anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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