he thinks I'm cheating help!!!!

[koala bear]

Well if you have read any of my post before, you know that my husband has been gone for well 4 months now.Well this is a new thing....... well as you all know hurricane Charley came right throught the center of the state (florida).

 

Well I was here with our three kids the storm started hitting really bad. Our yard has a LOT of trees that haven't been trimmed up in like seven years. So tree limbs started hitting the house. The little ones weren't so bad, but we had a big one hit so I grabbed the kids and ran over to the neibors house. He had sent his wife and kids to her parents house. But he has only one tree in his yard and it was just cut about 6 months ago.

 

Well, my husband got really mad and started acusing me of sleeping with this man.Just think about this I am 25 he is like 43 or 45 or somthing like that. I wasn't scarred of the hurricane but I didn't want anything to happen to my kids.

 

And my husband asked this guy to help out and to keep an eye on us.So this guy has been.

 

But about two months before we got married I did cheat on him.But he forgave me.And we got married. But now he thinks I'm sleeping with the guy next door and wants me to prove that I'm not. How do I do that??????

 

He has calmed down a little but he doesn't trust me, he called me a whore and a slut and told me he wanted a divorce. But he is calmed down but I'm not. Even though I'm not rageing mad anymore I am still thinking about a divorce. What do I do?

 

I hate being called names. And I didn't do anything wrong...... I need a brake.

 

Please help!!!!!!

[Mr Spock]

Tell him you've remained faithful to your marriage vows. And that you understand his suspicion, and you're sorry for the mistakes you made IN THE PAST. You need to work on rebuilding trust in your relationship. Long absences aren't helping.

 

If he verbally abuses you again, tell him you won't stand for that. Make him sleep on the couch. Preferably with a smelly wet dog.