teressa0397 Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 husband asking question's i went out too see my mother and when i got back my husband starting to ask question's he said when was the last time i spoke to danny i was haveing affair with i said it has been awhile; my husband said well danny had talk too wrong person because this person told me he was talking rough about you; my husband told me not too worried he will take care of it; but i don't no how to take my husband ; if danny said rough things about me why isn't my husband mad? is my husband trying to catch me up and making these thing's up; or is he figuring thing's out; danny told me not too fall for it he is fishing me out; well i broke down and seeing danny again i just don't no what to do i cant' let go of danny; is it all in my head i think i love danny or what; i seen this man for 9 year's may made 9 year's; i no i need to let go but i'am madly in love with danny; i just need love; all torn up between 2 men; Link to post Share on other sites
Velveteel Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 You can't go on like this. You do realize you could lose them both? If you love Danny more than your husband, you have to be brave and go to him. It is a terrible thing to stay in a marriage you can't honor, and to lie to your husband. He deserves to find someone who loves him best. You have my sympathy, but you have to choose. Give yourself a deadline--maybe a month from now--to make a firm decision and act on it. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 What you're doing is really unfair to your husband. You should decide on the one you want to be with, and if it turns out to be Danny, tell your husband and let him find someone who really loves him. Link to post Share on other sites
Grinning Maniac Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 Oh, he's asking questions after 9 years of being cheated on? How TERRIBLY inconvienient for you. What an inconsiderate prick your husband is... Link to post Share on other sites
evagreten1 Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Please read all the other posts by people who are being cheated on by their partners. See how much pain it is causing and then decide if you are the type of person who can and will consciously cause so much pain and depression in an individual. If you can still live with yourself after reading all this pain, then carry on your affair. If you are a grown, mature person, decide who you want, inform the two people involved and get on with your life as a decent human being. Not only you, but your partner also has a possible future full of happiness and a woman that will love him and be faithful to him. He deserves this life just as much as you, and you are denying him that at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
pitprincess Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Originally posted by honey2005 What you're doing is really unfair to your husband. You should decide on the one you want to be with, and if it turns out to be Danny, tell your husband and let him find someone who really loves him. I agree... Its not fair to anyone whats happening. Your going to have to make some choices and stick to them. You are married and givin that you should be working on you and your husband's relationship. Best of luck to you Link to post Share on other sites
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