cavalier99 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Well if you do send a text make sure it is the last communication EVER and let her know she is blocked you wont see anything she sends and you don't ever want to hear from here again. Then immediately block her so you don't see the response. Or Block her and pure NC (this is preferable) But you are a big boy and will do what you want. Just my suggestion. Link to post Share on other sites
Author puzzled1 Posted January 17, 2013 Author Share Posted January 17, 2013 The time for saying anything is over. Any riposte you come up with now, will simply amke you sound like a desperate sore loser.... It's time to take up the NC baton, run with it, and never stop until she's just a speck on the horizon... then keep going until she's just a speck of dirt on your dating resumé ... The you just flick that off the page.... Quit this game of ping-pong. it undermines your dignity and just keeps her in "He's paying attention to me - he MUST want me bad!" mode.... Kick her to the kerb and do what you know you should have been doing already. Quit weakening. Really, she's already demonstrated she is sooo not worth the aggro.... And when she goes to the lake - she can jump in it for all you care.... Thank you so much, I really needed this. She is not worth my time, she can go rot in hell for all I care now... I have never talked bad about her, but she is really an evil b*tch. All good, I will move on with my life with no regrets, no what if's, and know that I tired with all I had. She can go and be a selfish little child that she is. I might have to go change my number so she cannot get a hold of me. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 No, cavalier99. Complete silence - falling off her radar - will be so much more effective than anything he could possibly say. puzzled1, any words which you feel would be an appropriate last message before closing down, she will just see as "Huh. still hard at it...When I next click my fingers he'll be back....!" By just suddenly going AWOL, she will be bemused at first, then puzzled, then anxious, then back on your tail, crying, weeping being needy and making you promises, about how much she misses you, wants to see you again and is "so confused...." Yeah. Sure. That's known as 'Lather, rinse repeat'..... isn't it? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Your right taramaiden. Time for the last text is long gone. NC all the way! Link to post Share on other sites
Author puzzled1 Posted January 17, 2013 Author Share Posted January 17, 2013 No, cavalier99. Complete silence - falling off her radar - will be so much more effective than anything he could possibly say. Any words which you feel would be an appropriate last message before closing down, she will just see as "Huh. still hard at it...When I next click my fingers he'll be back....!" By just suddenly going AWOL, she will be bemused at first, then puzzled, then anxious, then back on your tail, crying, weeping being needy and making you promises, about how much she misses you, wants to see you again and is "so confused...." Yeah. Sure. That's known as 'Lather, rinse repeat'..... isn't it? You know just the things to say. I just deleted her off my phone. I hate this game! I did do that, I went away and she came back crying and begging but now I am just going to ignore her and not give a damn. She told me 2 nights ago when she was "supposedly" gonna break up with the other guy, that she is having a panic attack. So she took a xanax and went to sleep, Whenever she does that, her mood changes are very sudden and non consistent. I think she is still probably taking it. Link to post Share on other sites
golk Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Man I've been following this thread and Coping Vortex's thread and it sucks what you guys are going through again. To be given hope again and then have it snatched away just like that... Pathetic. I'm really sorry you guys are getting screwed again. But at least now the healing begins! I'm in a similar situation and I might be on here within the next few weeks with a similar thread.. Hopefully not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author puzzled1 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Share Posted January 18, 2013 Man I've been following this thread and Coping Vortex's thread and it sucks what you guys are going through again. To be given hope again and then have it snatched away just like that... Pathetic. I'm really sorry you guys are getting screwed again. But at least now the healing begins! I'm in a similar situation and I might be on here within the next few weeks with a similar thread.. Hopefully not. Best of luck to ya. Its honestly like ripping a band-aid from a big wound on your heart. Just gotta keep my head up and keep moving! Link to post Share on other sites
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