Alone & who knows?

[alwaysthere0]

So, Ive been single for almost six years now. In this time, I have attracted many of the 'wrong kinds of people.' I always seem to be the one before 'the one' they commit too.

I think that there is something wrong with me regardless of how awesome my friends say I am, I never used to feel this way...I was confident but as time has passed by this confidence is lessening by the day.

In this time, I have only met one person who really got me, I was pretty messed up when I met him and our time together only lasted a few months which was competely understandable, he met somebody else in that time and had a loving relationship with her until a few months ago. We have been spending time together again but purely as friends supporting eachother. All my old feelings reappeared over the past few weeks after he kissed me but he nipped it and said 'It would never work, I cant see myself with you. Its never gonna happen.' When I questioned what the hell he kissed me for he said it was because he thought he it was a good idea but then realised it wasnt because he was still in love with his ex. He keeps claiming nothing is there but always follows it up with he is love with someone else and is very confused himself. I feel like he is almost taking advantage of my kindness but like any person Im holding onto hope that things will change further down the track...In the back of my mind I know im being an idiot but things change right?

Any advice would be appreciated.

[HARPER100]

Do yourself a big favor and move on. The relationship didn't work out the 1st time and he's being clear now that he doesn't want anything more than friendship (and is it genuine friendship or is he using you for comfort while he gets over his ex?).

 

Trying to be friends with someone you have feelings for does not work. Eventually the emotions will get too much and you'll force the issue. He'll say it's not working out and it's best you don't hang out anymore. Result? You'll feel even worse.