sterry Posted January 12, 2013 Share Posted January 12, 2013 I think my bf of almost two yrs is cheating on me or doing something again. I am in a LDR also keep that in mind. okay so,Like a month ago i look thru his phone and found out that he went on a late date(dinner and a movie) with a female that i seen him texting b4 but i thought nutn. That night he went on the date I was on the phone with him and he kept complaining about how sleepy he was so eventually we got of the phone. I thought he was really goin to slp but he was really goin out on that date. The next couple of days later I came to visit him from skool and that night is wen i went thru his phone and found out that he went on that date. I confronted him he did the usaully "y u looking thru my phone?". She is just a friend that needed sum1 to tlk to and help" BS... so yeah after that night i forgive him... he said he will never tlk to her again... he deleted her number and so on... ok so today we were txtn bck and forth the usual conversation and he sent this text... This is the actual txt: "Pls read everything ...U wan to know how I feel..I feel like u deserve someone who know how special u are even if it is a friend. I feel like u deserve to b treated better..with love and passion and care and respect.. I feel like u deserve to b kiss every morning when u awake and every nite before u go to sleep. U deserve to b hold and hugged when u need it... u deserve someone to hold ur hand at the movie theater someone to walk with u every step..b their with u nd for u no matter wat.. u deserve better then u may think. Shonte let me love u let me show u wat love suppose to b like until u learn to love urself. " ok the problem with this is that my name is not Shonte...that is the name of the girl he went out on the date with... so i asked him what was that about he said he copied the words from a co worker while at work and they were in a rush he forgot to change the name... So he was basically saying that his co worker gf has the same name as this girl from the date. So like I have a gut feeling that sumthin is goin on...I do not think that is very likely that they have the same name...Then he got very defensive and try to turn it aroound and make me the bad person... I do not know what to believe... CAN SUM 1 GIVE ME DER OPINION PLZ?... Link to post Share on other sites
GSB81 Posted January 12, 2013 Share Posted January 12, 2013 Oh man.... He's obviously cheating on you. He obviously sent the wrong text to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Balzac Posted January 12, 2013 Share Posted January 12, 2013 Take off those rose colored glasses. He's cheating. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ribbons Undone Posted January 12, 2013 Share Posted January 12, 2013 sorry hun but it sure does sound like he's cheating on u it's definitely red flag behavior. u need to do what's best for urself and leave ur boyfriend. u deserve someone who will treat u right. dont ignore the signs. do something about them all the best -ribbons undone 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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