dixiechick037 Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 Ok, here I go. I have been divorced since Feb 2004. When my ex-husband left, he left me for the woman who he had been having an affair with since Jan 2002. I lived with this guy for 13 months after I found out about his affair. He moved out of our house and directly into hers in Nov 2003. Even after he moved out, he still kept insisting that we could make our family and marriage work. I told him there was "no way" the damage had been done. After I finally got over my anger and rage, from being hurt, I decide that for the kids sake that I would be friends with him. He helped us move and still kept saying that he wanted his family back. Stupid me...I gave him a second chance. The other night, I was looking for some important papers and was going through everything in the house. I came upon a receipt, dated 1 1/2 weeks after I let him come back home from a florist. He had wired some flowers with the message "I love you, will you marry me?" The problem I have is, I didn't get any flowers. They were sent to his girlfriend at her place of work. His bogus excuse was "I was just trying to get my "stuff" back that I by accident left at her house. I was only trying to make her think everything was ok so I could get it back." I am so sick and tired of his lies.....Life is short...and not many times in life do you get the opportunity to get a second chance, but when you do, you sure don't go and blow it. Well, paybacks are hell...especially when I'm doing the payback. Anybody got any good ideas on a good "payback"? Link to post Share on other sites
echo419 Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 The best payback would be to live your life to the fullest and forget about him. Rise above it. just my 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
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