Kristen_06 Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 My fiance and i were on a dinner date last night among other things. And he excused himself because he felt sick and went to the bathroom and he never came back. And i went by his apartment and when i used my key he just locked himself into his bedroom saying that he was sick and didn't want me to see him like that. And its got me worried and i don't know what to do about it. Just honestly think something is up we have been together like 3-4 years and our wedding is in a month i know lately he has said some things that make me wonder if he is still serious about it and if he is getting cold feet or not. I wanna take him to the ER but he won't even let me near him right now. What could be the problem? What should i do Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 Give him the space that he clearly wants. Talk to him in a couple of days if he hasn't approached you first. Get your answers then. Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 That's weird. Maybe he has really awful diarrhea. That's the only thing I could think of that would make me just leave in the middle of a dinner date. Unless you hear some frightening sounds coming through the door, I would suggest you leave him alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kristen_06 Posted January 13, 2013 Author Share Posted January 13, 2013 I understand giving him space just worried he is really ill Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 I understand giving him space just worried he is really ill Well, what do you hear? Bust in there if it sounds like he's dying! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kristen_06 Posted January 13, 2013 Author Share Posted January 13, 2013 Doesn't sound like he is dying or anything. Think he has been sleeping most the day. Link to post Share on other sites
shalisha42 Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 My fiance and i were on a dinner date last night among other things. And he excused himself because he felt sick and went to the bathroom and he never came back. And i went by his apartment and when i used my key he just locked himself into his bedroom saying that he was sick and didn't want me to see him like that. And its got me worried and i don't know what to do about it. Just honestly think something is up we have been together like 3-4 years and our wedding is in a month i know lately he has said some things that make me wonder if he is still serious about it and if he is getting cold feet or not. I wanna take him to the ER but he won't even let me near him right now. What could be the problem? What should i do Any man that goes to the bathroom and doesn't come back is not someone you want to marry. He will do the same thing to you when you go to the delivery room to have your baby! 4 Link to post Share on other sites
shalisha42 Posted January 13, 2013 Share Posted January 13, 2013 Doesn't sound like he is dying or anything. Think he has been sleeping most the day. Why aren't you angry he ditched you at the dinner table? Any decent person, any man that loved you - forget that - anyone with courtesy and respect for the person they are dating would tell them that they are sick and would like to end the dinner early. It sounds like you already know this but don't want to face the fact that your boyfriend/fiance is a real ******* and doesn't love you. Better to find out now than later. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 i know lately he has said some things that make me wonder if he is still serious about it and if he is getting cold feet or not. What kinds of things has he said or done? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Kristeen..he sounds like he has some major issues. A man is supposed to be stronger than that and would have not left you there without an explanation and a ride home. Unless you want to baby him during these little episodes throughout your marriage, then I would punt the drama queen to the curb. Link to post Share on other sites
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