solider79 Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 I met this Great Women online and I am deployed right now in Iraq so it makes it a little tough from the start but we have seen each other on the camera so we know what each other look like and we have talked alot and we both know everything about each other well after 6 months of taking and everything going great i picked up the phone to call her at Home and she hung up on me i called back said "is something wrong" she said "i cant talk right now" then i said "are we still OK" she said "i cant talk right now" Then we both said good bye ad hung up well this is really strange because she had never acted like this before, and also since i am overseas in the military i never really have a set time to either be online or to call and i was gone for a little while and after the phone call i seen that she was not online for a week prior to the phone call and she usually always leaves at least on message offline to say she is doing good. and after that phone call i have not talked to her since because i have no access to the phone and she has not be online Worried and confused Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteDragon Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 it could be a few things man. since you only know this girl from the internet...believe or not you don't know her that well. the internet can be a very damaging thing on a relationship. i know this from first hand experience. meeting someone online is risky. one thing could be is she is with someone and maybe she finds it exciting to talk to another man online. some women like to do that...as do men. since you haven't met this girl...i would not even worry about it. you have other things you are going through now in iraq. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 You can never know 'everything' about someone from meeting online. Heck, you can never know 'everything' about someone at all. However, with an online person, you don't even get to observe behaviour. All you get to do is learn what a person tells you - which may or may not be true. There are people who are honest online and, when you meet them, they are exactly as they said they were, but there are also a lot of people who use the Internet to act out a fantasy life. It's not a good sign that she didn't want to talk, and hasn't explained why, I'm afraid. If you try meeting someone online again, just remember that until you meet that person and spend some time together, you really don't have nearly a good enough picture of that person to make any sort of life judgements on. Link to post Share on other sites
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