Potatohead Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 My wifes only concern about porn is that it might enourage me to hassel her when I come to bed!!! Actually though, after we do have a good session, I will always reminise in the morning with a good solo, kind of extends the session from the night before eh eh.....would rather have a morning one with her tho Men and porn are only an issue if: 1. It interfers with your sex life, ie he does it so much that he can't or does not want to do it with you as much as you would like him to. (never an issue at our house) 2. You make it an issue. 3. You leave it where your kids can find it on your disk drive. Other than that its not an issue. I have so much porn on my machine I can't keep track of it...but honestly when it comes to a choice between porn and having real sex with the mrs....pahh...no contest.... LOL at someone catching their hubby just after they finished....my mrs knows I could still go a few miles with her even if that were the case.....grinz Link to post Share on other sites
Jeffrey Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 I'm happily married, am 100% devoted to my wife and we have sex 4-5 times/week (sans one week a month) and I will still view porno and have my 'alone time' regardless, sometimes even on nights when we've already done the deed. I like it so I do it. Link to post Share on other sites
slicvic Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 My husband and I have a major issue with this. I have a 7 month old son and my body is not the way it used to be. Every night when I am in the shower or out at the store he masturbates to porn on the Internet. We frequently have talks about our sex relationship and how I am unhappy with it. I am 222 and we have only been married 2 years. We have sex about once a month. I know looking at porn is normal. I look at porn since I do not have sex as often as I like. But I do not erase my tracks on the computer like he does. He does it then hides it. Which makes me feel even worse. He likes to look at women with big breast and lets just say that I am far from them. Which makes me feel not up to par. This is putting a huge gap in our marriage. When I try to talk to him about it he says he doesn't know why he does it. He doesn't want to even talk about it. I feel like he is no longer attracted to me and thats brings my self esteem down alot. And every time we do have sex I am the one having to initiate. Please help me! Am I on a dead end road? Is there any hope for me? I do not feel like I should beg my husband for sex. Link to post Share on other sites
illumina Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 It's one thing if the woman is saying no to sex, so the guy has to find another form of release, but when you are having sex probably less than once a month, and he shows very little interest in you in that way, and yet will stash pictures of naked women around the house, it's not so normal. Link to post Share on other sites
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