Toni_no12002 Posted August 14, 2005 Share Posted August 14, 2005 hi just thought id write something because ive got quite big boobs and people seem to think that having boobs =having guys.so not true!im in a relationship yea but i feel self concious because they are so big.boobs arent everything.its rather embarrasing that i have big boobs because they make me look really fat especially when i have a coat on!trust me whatever you do dont get a boob job!im a 36 f.they hurt i cant even bloody run because it hurts so much.boobs dont make people like you more trust me.you need to work on liking yourself as a person you must have things you like about yourself.draw attention to those things.if someone gives you attention because of your boobs i dont think there worth bothering with in the firt place! Link to post Share on other sites
tellitlikeitis Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 i have a small chest....almost a b cup. believe me when i say that it sucks hard core. i wear a padded bra with water filled plastic outer implants inside... it is soo far the best thing i've tried soo if any of u women want a little more confidence, try it out. its a quick fix for a day or evening out and with them i look like im well into a b cup maybe closer to c even. but i know how hard it is, at the end of the day i take them out an my confidence drops again but hell its the next best thing to gettin a boob job. no amount of wut anybody says about them being"cute" really makes a girl feel any better either ... u cant fit bras or clothing at all, iam a medium in a t shirt but am lowered to have to purchase a small just soo the chest area doesnt hang off of my body. i guess wut iam getting at is unfortunatly u are stuck that way forever unless u get surgery soo just deal with it the best way u can! i hope my tip helps someone out... Link to post Share on other sites
XahQshnr Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by blue17 Granted...if I had to choose I would select bigger over smaller, but it's no big deal either way. Why did you even bother posting? You still prefer big boobs over small non-existent ones anyway so how can you state that its no big deal to you when it so obviously is. Why even bother saying that you like small breasts if you'd just pick a pair of big ones over them anytime - you are obviously not a small breast lover AT ALL so stop acting like you are cos you're not. Its guys like you that really sh*t me as you say what you think we wanna hear but really you think another. This is how females like me become disillusioned with guys in general in regards to their opinion on breast size. This is also why we then hastily start to disregard any opinion guys have on the matter because it's obvious you're either in denial or just full of sh*t - period! Re-read your own quote if you need reminding. Link to post Share on other sites
ZeroVisibility Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by blue17 i don't really care about a woman's breast size. Granted...if I had to choose I would select bigger over smaller, but it's no big deal either way. What was the point of your post? How can you say you don't care about breast size and then in the next sentence say outright that you prefer big breasts over small ones anyway? Why did you even bother replying when you obviously don't like small breasts at all. It's guys like you that drive smaller breasted women like us nuts because you only say what you think we wanna hear when its obvious to us that your preferences lie else where. Can you just do us all a big favour and NOT date women like us even if you now you're going to score because really you just waste our time with your denial and dishonesty - who wants to be someone else's second-best choice or preference? If a larger breasted babe entered through the door you wouldn't even notice the small breasted hottie in the corner so just be honest - guys DO NOT like or pay any attention to small breasts unless they have a fetish for them - case closed. Sweetie all I can say to you at the ripe old age of 25 is that until you grow breasts you will be invisible to the eyes of men and no, it doesn't get any easier to handle with age. All I can say is toughen up now and eat a truckload of fenugreek as you're still young and there is a chance you could grow later so don't lose hope yet. However, the reality is that if you fail to grow them your personal life is going to be much harder as not having big breasts renders you invisible unless you act as promiscuously as Paris Hilton to prove the existence of your sexuality. I know this is harsh but its better you knew the sad truth now then spend a life-time listening to and becoming disillusioned by yes-men who'll never give their honest opinionto you as they know what the harsh reality is. Link to post Share on other sites
seahorse Posted August 26, 2005 Share Posted August 26, 2005 I haven't got big boobs. They were tiny until I had my kids. A cup, barely. They are now just sneaking up towards a B cup, depending on the brand of bra. None of the men I've been with, (ok, only 3, but who's counting) have ever complained about my boobs. When I've made self disparaging remarks about the size of them, they've all told me they love my boobs just as they are. Usual comment "Anything more than a handful/mouthful is a waste." I've mentally grown into my lack of breasts now. Love me as I am is my motto, cos I'm not doing the plastic surgery thing! Link to post Share on other sites
sweetie7 Posted September 1, 2005 Share Posted September 1, 2005 I know how you feel. My boobs are very small too and I have no hopes of them getting bigger-I'm 22. While I def. wish they were bigger, I've come to terms with them. I mean, I've had a couple of good, long relationships where the guys have never said anything bad about them and still enjoyed them quite a bit. My last bf always said they fit my body well and if he wanted bigger boobs, he wouldn't be with a tiny girl. Also, don't you think the guys you are hanging out with already kinda know you don't have big boobs? Unless you're wearing ridiculous push-up bras I think the guy knows pretty much what he's dealing with. And he obviously doesn't care too much. You just can't let it bother you; nobody is perfect! And everybody's idea of perfect is different. Also, I really think most guys would rather have a girl with a small chest than one with big, but fake boobs. Link to post Share on other sites
nemo23 Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Hi! I see this post was started over a year ago but still goin... I always feel like I'm not alone when I read posts like this. I also have a small chest and have crying fits when I feel that I'm not good enough. The truth is... they are so much more ELEGANT looking and so much more feminine than larger baby feeders. If you feel that you are TOTALLY flat you might want to look into saline injections... these may give you a taste for what it might be like to have bigger breasts... and if you like the difference... than either stick with the saline or get implants because it's not worth feeling worthless....Although we would just be giving in to this horrible world and how society looks at women... it's hard to live feeling inferior. Be strong. Or find a solution. Men out there who stated they would rather have a gal with small breasts... I SALUTE YOU!!! And you give us hope. Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo23 Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 Hi! I see this post was started over a year ago but still goin... I always feel like I'm not alone when I read posts like this. I also have a small chest and have crying fits when I feel that I'm not good enough. The truth is... they are so much more ELEGANT looking and so much more feminine than larger baby feeders. If you feel that you are TOTALLY flat you might want to look into saline injections... these may give you a taste for what it might be like to have bigger breasts... and if you like the difference... than either stick with the saline or get implants because it's not worth feeling worthless....Although we would just be giving in to this horrible world and how society looks at women... it's hard to live feeling inferior. Be strong. Or find a solution. Men out there who stated they would rather have a gal with small breasts... I SALUTE YOU!!! And you give us hope. Link to post Share on other sites
Nemo23 Posted September 2, 2005 Share Posted September 2, 2005 woops. i posted that twice. just ignore one of them. sorry all. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 Not that my opinion really matters but I don't care at all about breast size. In fact, I'd prefer smaller over bigger if I simply were to judge on breasts. If getting breast implants would make you feel better about yourself then I guess you can do it (I dont like plastic surgery but if it is to be done I only like it to make people feel beter about themselves not for the purpose of others) but if you want to do it simply to attract the opposite sex then I say don't. Any guy who would judge you on your breasts isnt worth your time. Sad that society has made people so self conscious about things we have no control in and have simply because of our genes. I mean how fugged up is that? People shouldnt feel bad about their physical features they didnt choose. **** it pisses me off. It really bugs me that there are many women out there who feel bad because their chest isnt the supposed "ideal" size or isn't "huge" like apparently many men desire. The breasts are there for a biological reason and if they can do that then they are fine regardless of size. All I know is I wouldn't pass any judgment on a woman based on her chest (unless she got huge implants....then I'd think she lacks substance) as I look at a woman's personality to see who she is...then again I am probably in the minority of people who are like that. Stupid society. heh Like wouldn't guys hate it if they didnt have a penis? Nah I would love not having a penis because it would most likely mean I wouldn't have the urge to have sex and find a mate and could just go about doing my own thing without ever thinking of women/sex/etc and feeling down about not being with someone. Logically I know I dont need to be with soemone to enjoy my life yet my penis and the hormones associated with it tell me every so often I should be with someone. Bugs the crap out of me. hehe Link to post Share on other sites
truelyaqua Posted September 20, 2005 Share Posted September 20, 2005 hey , i got big ones and trust me i wud die to be in ur position ...it is no fun u cant wear the sexy slinky stuff cant play sports tht involve running wondering if they are shaking too much...........basically making u very embaressed.......boobs tend to grow later on dont worry when u have kids they will become really big n then u will want to be back to small again......do not go in for fakes nuthing like going natural trust me..... aqua Link to post Share on other sites
bethrocksguitar Posted September 22, 2005 Share Posted September 22, 2005 I used to be obssesed with size in my teen years and still can get to me sometimes when I try on clothes. There are so many ways to make yourself look good without big boobs. Find stuff that compliments you and your body type. It's hard when we see all of boob america on tv. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Is there something wrong with me? Yes. You have been brainwashed to believe that all men want big humungous bazongas. It's not at all true. Do you know there are porn websites dedicated exclusively to 'tiny tatas'? Few men are so shallow that they will not want a relationship with you because you don't possess a couple pounds of fat and tissue on each side of your chest. Quit obsessing over this, let fellows show you how much they care about you. You'll soon learn that a real man will love the person, not the accoutrements attached to the person. What you say? I love big boobs just like how girls like big penises. You do with what you got. Don't answer for me or other men. And to the thread starter - you're not insecure, you just want to call attention to yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 Boobs of all sizes can be beautiful. Not just big. Link to post Share on other sites
Toni_no12002 Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 Its strange isnt it people are never happy with what they have.I have size 36f boobs and trust me it isnt fun.They hurt and look bloody stupid!I find it a pain because i cant buy really nice clothes.You know the type slim women wear.Your lucky trust me id swop with you any day!I look really fat sometimes because when i wear a coat and its got to be bigger because of my boobs.I look like a barrel because you cant buy coats that are that fitted so you can tell its your boobs that are big and not you.Trust me be happy with what youve got.If you was born and later on you had big boobs im sure you would want them smaller.Its like that saying "You always want what you cant have!" Because i know i do.But you have to like yurself for who you are.If you spend most of your life worrying you turn around one day and think that youve wasted your life worrying over things when you could of enjoyed yourself.I have im so worried about how i look. Im 21 soon and i could of just enjoyed myself.If your confident it shows and people love that.Me now because i dont like myself very much im going to counselling.It been such a waste.I have a kid now to look after but im still worried about my looks and stuff when really all my attention should be on my kid and enjoying it.But i cant enjoy myself until i have more confidence.Hope counselling works.I dont want to be obbsessing over what others have and i havent for the rest of my life because there are more important things! Link to post Share on other sites
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