Ever have a sex dream about your coworker?

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And did you have a hard time looking them in the eye the next morning?

[Minadee]

Of course, who hasnt?

 

My supervisor was madly in love with me when I was in a stable relationship a couple of years ago (He gave me the full confession, I told him I was in a relationship and that I didn't know what he expected from me) and things went back to normal. He got promoted and we flirted and had a laugh and he was a good friend to me in my time of need. Then he gets a girlfriend and he starts flirting less and less, thus making me want him more and more. (Woman logic, eh?) and I had a dream that he pushed me into the supply closet and well... you can imagine the rest, and for a good few weeks after I went a bright shade of scarlet whenever I saw him.

 

It'll pass, I promise. I still look at him and smile inside sometimes but I don't have the urge to push him into the cleaning cupboard anymore!

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Thanks for the encouragement and for sharing your story! That must have been a fun fantasy. Although I'm glad you handled his confession so well; I might have felt intimidated or harassed if a supervisor expressed romantic interest.

 

Then he gets a girlfriend and he starts flirting less and less, thus making me want him more and more. (Woman logic, eh?)

Heh, I think it happens to everyone -- people always want what they can't have!

 

I had a dream that my boss, who is conventionally attractive but not my type, sat me down on his desk and, um, yeah.

 

Surprisingly, that made things less awkward for me at work, because I became less conflicted about being sexually attracted to him instead of trying to convince myself there was nothing there. The dream got me to come to terms with the fact that even if I'd never date him, I certainly wouldn't kick him out of bed, and that having those feelings are OK as long as I don't do anything stupid with them (we both are in committed relationships).

 

Now I can just relax and enjoy the fantasy!

[sweetkiwi]

Nope. As horny as I am I never have sex dreams. Once when I was in fifth grade about my best guy friend. Confusing.

 

I DO however fly a lot in my dreams which is supposed to signify sexual desire or release according to some dream interpretations. But its definitely more about flying than sex.

 

Or is it subconscious???

[missingu]

yessssssssssss.

 

 

wasnt getting along with my boss at all in my waking life.....always fighting him,going against what he said.....couldnt stand him....

 

or so i thought.

 

Had a dream we screwed one night and it was great.....things have been awkward ever since.

 

I am extremely infatuated with him,and he knows..but its an unspoken thing.

 

haha he was the last person i ever expected to get a crush on

[Feelin Frisky]

Yes and no. Yes for the sex dream. No for the guilt trip. I can say that the dream triggered a greater interest or admiration that turned into an infatuation. But they never led to acting out.

[SamBam]

I had way too many sex dreams about my ex boss. And we were the only two workers in the office so he would often flirt with me. After a while he quit and got a better job so I stopped thinking about him. And then out of nowhere he came to my office bc it was work related. And ended up asking me out. We had a good few days together which led to what I always dreamed about. And surprisingly we had a great connection. But I knew he was a player so I just left him

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yessssssssssss.

 

wasnt getting along with my boss at all in my waking life.....always fighting him,going against what he said.....couldnt stand him....

 

or so i thought.

 

Had a dream we screwed one night and it was great.....things have been awkward ever since.

 

I am extremely infatuated with him,and he knows..but its an unspoken thing.

 

haha he was the last person i ever expected to get a crush on

 

I can say that the dream triggered a greater interest or admiration that turned into an infatuation.

This is really fascinating to me! It's kind of amazing how much effect our dreams can have on our waking life -- that dreams can actually change the way we feel about someone.

 

We had a good few days together which led to what I always dreamed about. And surprisingly we had a great connection.

Sounds like a good time!

[MsSmurf]

Yep several times. In fact I'm having them about a colleague at my current job hehehe.

[taiko]

And did you have a hard time looking them in the eye the next morning?

This must have been written by a woman. If you know a man he has had that dream and unless he partner has always been there for him he has let his hand do its thing. Best not over think it if that makes you sqimish.