Nightsky Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Social cues " i dont like you " = " goahead penetrate me " haha exactly. These girls who can't say no are a real trip. A double edged sword. Ahh a girl who can't say no but will passive aggressively try to ruin your life by painting you as some kind rapist... a guy can dream... a guy can dream.. Link to post Share on other sites
TheZebra Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I think you're misuing the word 'nice' to mean 'pushover'. I'm a nice person, but if I'm not interested in a guy he doesn't even get a hug... much less sex. Don't drag it out, just tell them, and don't give them any breadcrumbs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HitMeNow Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 He's not a virgin anymore if he was to begin with. HAHAHA Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Um he got laid. although OP if you really are soooooo kind and he IS practically a virgin then you should keep giving him sex. it would be the kind thing to do maybe? I know you've mentioned how kind you are 4789307489301 times. If only you were so kind I'd fly you out right now to do some missionary (position) work for me. Link to post Share on other sites
HitMeNow Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 That happened before my relationship. Why don't you post your relationship in my thread "Post a happy ending story". It would be nice to hear some positive stuff for once : ) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Hello I need urgent advice on how to friend zone a guy in a kind way! (He's 34. I'm 24. ) We had a few dates. for me they were casual meetings , nothing special but he got it very wrong. Tried to kiss me on the 3rd "date" - I avoided him and gave him the cheek. So on our 4th meeting, we went to watch a movie together at his place ( very wrong I know but I thought I made it very clear about my intentions by avoiding the kiss. ) and had a couple of drinks. He kinda force kissed me which led to sex unfortunately. Tried getting away which was in vain. And I couldn't tell him to stop because it would be heart breaking. ( Btw He was very bad at kissing /love making. )for me there was no sexual interest or chemical attraction whatsoever. Then he started calling every single day to arrange a date for the evening. he was like -I pick you up at 6? At first I made up several excuses but later It became impossible to make up different excuses for every single day. This went on for about a month. I always stood away from him - physically. Never told him emotional things - eg when he says I miss u - I never replied. I stood very cold. while he was very kind and nice. Arranged romantic dinners at nice restaurants - bought me a lot of gifts - he is like he was in a serious relationship. Now how do I friendzone him? He'd make a perfect friend. And I don't want to waste his time any longer. I don't want to break his heart or bruise his ego because he is very kind and thoughtful. You accepted dinners gifts you have been cold to him you have already broken his heart, you just haven't told him yet so he cant feel it,he will soon though you have led him on by accepting gifts and continuing to go out with him.You can't friend zone this guy now, you have already slept with him, that is selfishness on your part ..if it was a mutual break then yes he could have been friendzoned......sorry but i feel that to be true.....if you truly care about this kind affectionate guy let him go....you should have let him go before the gifts and expensive dinners.....let him go so he can find soemone who cares and feels for him .....best wishes.....deb 1 Link to post Share on other sites
skylark100 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I shouldnt do it over a text message or a call right? A text message? Are you serious? I guarantee you he will lose every ounce of respect for you on the spot and you will never have to deal with him again if you do it that way. Go right ahead, it will acheive the desired result for you. And as everyone else said, you NEVER EVER suggest being friends, it's the most selfish and self centered thing you could ever do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alia_alia Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Hello I need urgent advice on how to friend zone a guy in a kind way! (He's 34. I'm 24. ) We had a few dates. for me they were casual meetings , nothing special but he got it very wrong. Tried to kiss me on the 3rd "date" - I avoided him and gave him the cheek. So on our 4th meeting, we went to watch a movie together at his place ( very wrong I know but I thought I made it very clear about my intentions by avoiding the kiss. ) and had a couple of drinks. He kinda force kissed me which led to sex unfortunately. Tried getting away which was in vain. And I couldn't tell him to stop because it would be heart breaking. ( Btw He was very bad at kissing /love making. )for me there was no sexual interest or chemical attraction whatsoever. Then he started calling every single day to arrange a date for the evening. he was like -I pick you up at 6? At first I made up several excuses but later It became impossible to make up different excuses for every single day. This went on for about a month. I always stood away from him - physically. Never told him emotional things - eg when he says I miss u - I never replied. I stood very cold. while he was very kind and nice. Arranged romantic dinners at nice restaurants - bought me a lot of gifts - he is like he was in a serious relationship. Now how do I friendzone him? He'd make a perfect friend. And I don't want to waste his time any longer. I don't want to break his heart or bruise his ego because he is very kind and thoughtful. OMG, this guy sounds like one of my best friends. Do you live in Toronto, Canada by any chance? If it is the same guy that would be funny. He is destroyed. And he's been destroyed emotionally from the first time he met you. Your "being polite and nice", to him means you are into him. And I don't blame himfor that... Link to post Share on other sites
Mrlonelyone Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 (edited) Social cues " i dont like you " = " goahead penetrate me " I know right? Now if you are a heterosexual or bisexual man in the throws of doing it you can't be sure the woman at least really likes you? But hey...one of the women I've had sex with in my years said after the fact she was jut being nice. Our whole relationship/friendship was her being nice. Edited January 17, 2013 by Mrlonelyone Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chocolatecat Posted January 17, 2013 Author Share Posted January 17, 2013 OMG, this guy sounds like one of my best friends. Do you live in Toronto, Canada by any chance? If it is the same guy that would be funny. He is destroyed. And he's been destroyed emotionally from the first time he met you. Your "being polite and nice", to him means you are into him. And I don't blame himfor that... No I do not Live in Canada. Link to post Share on other sites
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