Darth Vader Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 Let me start w/... road, time to put'r in reverse pal. I made my decision. I will not waiver. You can say what you like and I'm good w/that. Heck it was You who brought up the topic of telling in the first place which I did heed and was able to really help my friends w/that. So thanks. But let's not get snippy cause I'm good w/where I'm at w/being true to myself and my friend and her husband. I am waiting for her to call me. I think it would be innapropriate as well as none of my business to call him. I haven't quite decided if I tell my own children now or when divorce is final and if their kids call mine, that would be a conversation starter... It would be the first D for my kids through friends so close. How about suggestions on that?? Why not inform your children of your friend's parents up coming divorce as soon as you hear your friend's children know about the divorce (no since in your children telling her children). Give her children time to absorb the hard truth. Besides, if you tell your children now, it'll come out some how, then her children may feel violated. But, don't keep your children in the dark for too long, because they are their friends. It's kind of a balancing act! I hope this makes sense. My head is spinning! Vader out! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ComingInHot Posted January 28, 2013 Author Share Posted January 28, 2013 Vader; Her children know. I was thinking I should wait til said D is well in the works before I talk to my kids. I don't want to tell prematurely as what if they "work it out" (doubtful) but it has been known to happen at the midnight hour... I will talk to them though, no doubt about it. Timing does mean a-lot, you're right* Link to post Share on other sites
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