justin8 Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 (edited) Girl at college - dropping hints that she's interested. Body language, asking about my relationship status and telling me she wants to date someone, regular touching - informal kind (but not outright flirting - more like a show of affection). I too tried to gauge her interest and comfort level - like brushing aside her hair when she's showing me her earrings and similar stuff - she seemed quite comfortable and didn't object/react oddly. Caveats: She's busy. She is pretty but hasn't been in a relationship as of now. Was close to guy earlier (she shared the fact with me) - but I know he started seeing someone else recently. Although she's looking to date, but her first priority is career/education (which I really appreciate and would like to be that way). So it was difficult to spend time with her out of class (she sits next to me in class - which gives ample time to interact). So finally - although I would've liked to spend some more time with her and make her comfortable with the idea of us two together - but I guess I acted too soon. She'd been telling me certain things since last few days - like she was talking with her friends that "she's going to die alone" or that she had to go for a walk alone last night etc. We usually don't chat on text - I texted her yesterday afternoon - to meet and have a chat..she initially hesitated and then replied ok. But didn't get a text that she's free in evening, so I texted her if she's free - she didn't reply. 5 hours later, late night, I received a text that she just read the message. I said fine, and asked her hows her mood - didn't get a reply. phew...so whats her deal? and did I act too fast and in an inappropriate way? (what I understand is - either she's not interested and doesn't want to spoil the friendship or, as she hasn't been in a relationship earlier - just doesn't know how to respond to the situation and thus freaking out and stalling action). I am fine either way ...just don't want her to freak out or feel uncomfortable around me (thanks for reading through - this could be my 2nd relationship - in the first one, the girl was smart enough to take care of all this stuff ) Edited January 19, 2013 by justin8 Link to post Share on other sites
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