Sox Man Posted January 19, 2013 Share Posted January 19, 2013 Got invited out tomorrow night to watch the games. Only problem is, the girl I work with, that I have a history with, and the girl I'm trying to get over is coming too. We get along great at work, but we don't stay in touch outside of work anymore, after being practically inseperable for months. My question is, should I even show up? We all have mutual friends, and I told myself I wasn't going to let her presence change things between me and our friends.When I say our friends there are gonna be like 5 other people at one table, so it's not like I can "get lost in the crowd". Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sox Man Posted January 22, 2013 Author Share Posted January 22, 2013 Well, I decide NOT to go, and the next day, the girl who invited me texted me and was kind of upset with me. I think the fact I didn't go made the statement I wanted. They couldn't believe I didn't go, knowing she was going to be there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sox Man Posted March 19, 2013 Author Share Posted March 19, 2013 My getting over my coworker remains a work in progress. Yeah, I know it's been like 5 months, but we work on the same floor and we have mutual friends. I see her in passing, and have started a new shift 10am to 10pm. today she pickingly says to me " hey,we're going tonight. Oh, wait you don't get off until 10." Then smiles. Earlier in the day she sends me text and I didn't feel my phone vibrate and she asked me about it. I really want to get over her, but don't want to start something, and don't want to be a jerk. How do I just blow her off and still remain professional, and without being a jerk. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sox Man Posted March 19, 2013 Author Share Posted March 19, 2013 Should I just be a jerk? My getting over my coworker remains a work in progress. Yeah, I know it's been like 5 months, but we work on the same floor and we have mutual friends. I see her in passing, and have started a new shift 10am to 10pm. today she pickingly says to me " hey,we're going tonight. Oh, wait you don't get off until 10." Then smiles. Earlier in the day she sends me text and I didn't feel my phone vibrate and she asked me about it. I really want to get over her, but don't want to start something, and don't want to be a jerk. How do I just blow her off and still remain professional, and without being a jerk. Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 She doesnt sound like a nice person. Dont be a jerk- actually in the workplace thats not a good idea. Be polite but keep as much distance as possible. Dont respond to any of her texts unless its work related and when you talk to her at work, keep non-work related convos to a minimum. You dont have to cut her off, just give short answers (politely) and change the subject. She should take the hint Link to post Share on other sites
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