ryanaz Posted August 23, 2004 Share Posted August 23, 2004 I just contacted an ex whom I tried to get back with earlier this year. I didn't know it at the time but she had four other guys after her. At that time I was depressed, down on my luck , and not looking all that great. I didn't get the girl. A week later she emailed a message saying she was so so so sorry but something had happened which made everything so complicated and she said that she hoped this wasn't the end of our friendship or any chances in the future. Now to me it sounded like she had gotten married or had moved to a foreign country or something.(any ideas?) However, the last line was like a slap in the face, so I told her that I didn't want to hear from her anymore and aidos. Three months later and after a couple of short relationships, I changed my mind. I emailed her back to see the news. I won't lie, I was hoping she was single and that she was missing my blue eyes ,but of course that wasn't the case and she is still with the same guy. It's only been about a week since I've gotten back in contact with her ,and we've had no phone calls just slow email messages. I'm back to being me and feeling good and I would like to flirt with the idea of getting her back even though she is spoken for. She hasn't really said anything just hints when she works as before I would always come in and see her. I know this might be the worst time to go after her since she's in a long term relationship. However, one of her friends has been telling me if I want her, I better go for her now or I'll be trying when its too late. I'd just like to have no regrets, if she turns me down when I'm not messed up then I could let it go. How should I go about doing this? Link to post Share on other sites
pixie2004 Posted August 24, 2004 Share Posted August 24, 2004 Take it slow!!! Just remember that if she cheats on this guy with you - she would most definitely cheat on you as well when (if) you are together. Once a cheater - always a cheater The other thing is - 3 months is not really a long term relationship! Go for it. x my fingers! Link to post Share on other sites
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