@ngel Posted July 2, 1998 Share Posted July 2, 1998 A year ago, my ex left me after being together 2 yrs, telling me he "wasn't happy". I recently found out that he went back to his ex of 4 yrs ago & they're already engaged! I can't seem to get into a relationship since then and use this as a crutch for my actions & behaviour. I am afraid to show too much emotion to anyone because I fear that it will push them away. What can I do to stop allowing this pain to interfere with finding a happy relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted July 5, 1998 Share Posted July 5, 1998 Well it is understandable to take some time off and reflect/regroup from a relationship after it ends, but there is a point where we need to continue with our lives. You might ask yourself if you have any past feelings of abandonment or loss that could have been triggered by this (such as parents divorcing, dad dying, etc). Understanding our pasts is the key to controlling our futures. Link to post Share on other sites
Terry Posted July 7, 1998 Share Posted July 7, 1998 A year ago, my ex left me after being together 2 yrs, telling me he "wasn't happy". I recently found out that he went back to his ex of 4 yrs ago & they're already engaged! I can't seem to get into a relationship since then and use this as a crutch for my actions & behaviour. I am afraid to show too much emotion to anyone because I fear that it will push them away. What can I do to stop allowing this pain to interfere with finding a happy relationship? There is no easy way to deal with L-O-V-E But one thing is for sur you should never stop searching for Mr Right. And remember not to take emotional baggage to the next relationship.-Terry Link to post Share on other sites
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