Does this reality blow your mind about body image?

[mesmerized]

Oh dear.

 

Beats head on desk*

 

Enough of these threads.

 

Now another pointless gender war thread is going to bloom...

 

Like the others.

 

Man, am I back in high school?

 

You kinda are. The average age of these "scientist" posters is like 20.

 

I think there should be a subforum that doesn't allow under 25 or something. I do realize that is not enough to cut out the stupidity though but maybe just lessens it?

[SJC2008]

This is similar to my thread. I tried too hard to make my point, ended up confusing everyone and the thread died. It is about looks and leagues exist in every relationship dynamic. Alphas with women who want dominant men, balanced men with balanced women (Healty, both are "nice" but have boundaries and stand their ground when needed), betas with dominant/controing women. If you can't get laid in either category, you're punching out of your league.

[charlietheginger]

Im 5`9 and i do o.k usually with women 5 ft to

5`4 only if she digs a more muscular guy.

 

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its ether hit or miss . If a women likes muscular

Weightlifter bodybuilding types then i do well.

If she thinks its gross then its a total strike out.

 

Not a big deal i dont drink or smoke the women

i attract are fellow gym goers. mid 30s women

That are really into the lifestyle.

 

Usually its a total we click or eww muscle is yuckie.

 

Im casually seeing a women now. She is a swimsuit

Bikini competator . So when i was at her house last week

it was not a bigdeal about dinner. We both eat a lot

of fish fruits and veggies. Nether one of us eat junk

Or processed foods. It seems to be going well.

[mesmerized]

Im 5`9 and i do o.k usually with women 5 ft to

5`4 only if she digs a more muscular guy.

 

Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting

 

its ether hit or miss . If a women likes muscular

Weightlifter bodybuilding types then i do well.

If she thinks its gross then its a total strike out.

 

Not a big deal i dont drink or smoke the women

i attract are fellow gym goers. mid 30s women

That are really into the lifestyle.

 

Usually its a total we click or eww muscle is yuckie.

 

Im casually seeing a women now. She is a swimsuit

Bikini competator . So when i was at her house last week

it was not a bigdeal about dinner. We both eat a lot

of fish fruits and veggies. Nether one of us eat junk

Or processed foods. It seems to be going well.

 

Your camera needs to point a little more down in that pic.

[Leigh 87]

I am so sick of these threads. Lol. And this is coming from a woman who was too focused on looks and is starting to lose interest. Fast.

 

 

..... People with that attitude, that think looks are everything, can go f*ck themselves, and hang out with their superficial friends.

 

I feel sorry for them, their emphasis on looks are robbing them of a lot of richness they could get out of life. Sure they could be very happy, but I personally feel that people who focus on giving back to others, and who do not regard looks as so darn important, are better people to be around in general.

 

There are a lot of beautiful, kind people who are awesome, but they are not the types to think " looks matter above all else"

 

 

 

..I cannot believe the OP has gone into so much detail regarding looks and ..exactly what looks it takes to get laid or a relationship, and how much personality you need to compensate for your less than stunning looks:sick:

 

Looks are important and can make for a very lively and exciting dating life i you HAVE enough in the looks department, but people should try to develope far more depth to their personality rather than focusing on looks or putting TOO much importance on them.

 

Some people have a great dating life due to their looks, while some get less dating offers and do not have a busy or exciting dating life each week, because they are not attractive.

 

You know, looks are just like money, it is great to have them, but you can be just as happy in how you FEEl, as a bette rlooking or more wealthy person.

 

True happiness is not measured by looks, not happines in the truest sense.

[IT Geek]

What women look for first is LOOKS then Alpha male body language. So if you look like a male model you can get away with being a dumbass as long as you have the Alpha body language.

 

Finally, a woman with the balls to admit the truth instead of that "looks aren't everything" drivel. I already knew this based on the fact I haven't been on a date or had contact with a woman in over two years, but it was good to see someone own up and admit it.

[IT Geek]

 

Anywho, looks are to dating as resume is to job hunting. Having a good one will get you in the door for an interview, but it doesn't guarantee you a job.

 

But without a good looking resume (looks) you won't get in the door PERIOD.

[runningfar]

Finally, a woman with the balls to admit the truth instead of that "looks aren't everything" drivel. I already knew this based on the fact I haven't been on a date or had contact with a woman in over two years, but it was good to see someone own up and admit it.

 

So, uhh, you actually believe this is a woman?

 

Sometimes you don't need to see the adam's apple....

[IT Geek]

True happiness is not measured by looks, not happiness in the truest sense.

 

Perhaps not directly, but there is sure an indirect correlation. If you're telling me that people with looks don't have it easier in some cases than unattractive people you are sorely mistaken.

[JuneJulySeptember]

But without a good looking resume (looks) you won't get in the door PERIOD.

 

Almost a perfect analogy!

 

Although.

 

There is a chance you will get an interview without good looks. You may have to aim lower and send out LOTS of resumes, but eventually you'll find someone to give you a chance.

 

After all that, you'll be in the running and that's all, but still you have a chance.

[Power Girl]

I am so sick of these threads. Lol. And this is coming from a woman who was too focused on looks and is starting to lose interest. Fast.

 

 

..... People with that attitude, that think looks are everything, can go f*ck themselves, and hang out with their superficial friends.

 

I feel sorry for them, their emphasis on looks are robbing them of a lot of richness they could get out of life. Sure they could be very happy, but I personally feel that people who focus on giving back to others, and who do not regard looks as so darn important, are better people to be around in general.

 

There are a lot of beautiful, kind people who are awesome, but they are not the types to think " looks matter above all else"

 

 

 

..I cannot believe the OP has gone into so much detail regarding looks and ..exactly what looks it takes to get laid or a relationship, and how much personality you need to compensate for your less than stunning looks:sick:

 

Looks are important and can make for a very lively and exciting dating life i you HAVE enough in the looks department, but people should try to develope far more depth to their personality rather than focusing on looks or putting TOO much importance on them.

 

Some people have a great dating life due to their looks, while some get less dating offers and do not have a busy or exciting dating life each week, because they are not attractive.

 

You know, looks are just like money, it is great to have them, but you can be just as happy in how you FEEl, as a bette rlooking or more wealthy person.

 

True happiness is not measured by looks, not happines in the truest sense.

 

1. Blonde hair

2. Large cheek bones

3. Attractive jawline

4. Ok weight size

5. Clear face

 

^If I took all that away from you do you really think men would give you the time or day? The only reason you disagree is because you know I'm correct. It frustrates you that without looks NOBODY would notice you so you deny it.

 

You say personality is what matters yes? To some degree yes and no. If you're a hot woman without being a bitch then yes most guys will like you. For a guy will need LMS but most importantly LOOKS. Looks tells women how masculine we are. It tells women we have good genetics. The only personality we men need is Alpha or beta. All other Personality traits AREN'T important.

[Toddbt12y1]

Finally, a woman with the balls to admit the truth instead of that "looks aren't everything" drivel. I already knew this based on the fact I haven't been on a date or had contact with a woman in over two years, but it was good to see someone own up and admit it.

 

Power girl is a Guy, LOL.

 

Refer the other threads.

 

He is flamming gender wars. Why is everyone playing his game?

[KungFuJoe]

Power girl is a Guy, LOL.

 

Refer the other threads.

 

He is flamming gender wars. Why is everyone playing his game?

 

Because that is what we do around here.

[Toddbt12y1]

Because that is what we do around here.

 

LOL exactly.

[FitChick]

looks are to dating as resume is to job hunting. Having a good one will get you in the door for an interview, but it doesn't guarantee you a job.

 

A good signature line for someone to steal.

[AlexDP]

 

Anywho, looks are to dating as resume is to job hunting. Having a good one will get you in the door for an interview, but it doesn't guarantee you a job.

 

That's where the blowjob comes in.

[Aedra]

1. Blonde hair

2. Large cheek bones

3. Attractive jawline

4. Ok weight size

5. Clear face

 

^If I took all that away from you do you really think men would give you the time or day? The only reason you disagree is because you know I'm correct. It frustrates you that without looks NOBODY would notice you so you deny it.

 

You say personality is what matters yes? To some degree yes and no. If you're a hot woman without being a bitch then yes most guys will like you. For a guy will need LMS but most importantly LOOKS. Looks tells women how masculine we are. It tells women we have good genetics. The only personality we men need is Alpha or beta. All other Personality traits AREN'T important.

 

How's your Alpha/Beta "science" working for you? Getting you a nice girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with?

[Leigh 87]

Based on my life experiences with women, id say Im epmirically about an average 7 on days where my skin looks good, I maintain my hair, and I dress nice. On days I dont care, Im sure Im a 6 or even a 5.

 

That being said, I feel Im a regular dude...and even so, Ive gotten with several hot babes in my day. Girls who were at least 7s. So considering Im not this sexy "alpha" stallion, how did I get attractive women OP?

 

 

 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

OP, will you look at this again please....

 

honestly, all you need is to be average or slightly cute, to get sexy babes or hot guys....

 

Kaylan works out, is educated, and has things about him that make girls think he is a cool dude, that they enjoy being around.

 

The way he ACTS in real life, around girls, and certain things about him (the fact he is educated, has a career, is into being it) get girls that are decent to be interested.

 

Being a 7 on a good day, is seriously ENOUGH to get the best looking girls.

 

With a 7 or 6 (for a man) , he can really appeal to people, and his looks are not holding him back at all.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Nothing has changed much. Women now have the freedom to be even more hypergamous. Most ladies spend their 16-27 years having sex with Alpha status men. At around 30-35 She'll start to settle for the beta provider. Basically what attracts women is Alpha status and/or beta male traits when needed at different ages. Women NEVER LOVE men for who they are. He has to be a useful beta or a dominate Alpha.

 

Start trying to live your life and thinking for yourself. You spout so much rhetoric that it makes me very sad.

 

I've never really thought of myself as a "feminine entity," though! It kind of sounds supernatural!

[veggirl]

Photo of the complainer guys and then photo of the typical type of girl they want / approach.

 

That would shed a lot of light on this s.hit.

[ChessPieceFace]

Waking up to drink tea and eat tasty pancakes makes life worth living

Having a great debate with other guys makes life worth living

Inventing new technology makes life worth living

Playing a simple video game makes life worth living

 

Living with a feminine entity that can screw me over in divorce isn't worth it. That entity may also take all your hard earn money after 10 years of so called love. Why would I desire to even put up with the feminine entities drama or endless tests. Besides giving birth and sex just what can a female do for men or this world? To this day men invent and push forward reality on earth.

 

They look pretty.......what else?

 

But if you really believed this, and these non-dating things made you happy, why would you be whining on these forums? Not that I don't agree with your points, but you're still whining. The world isn't going to change to live up to your or my standards of ethics and decency. The world is corrupt, unfair, morally and ethically bankrupt and it's because of the inherent failings of the human race.

 

Here's the silver lining -- you don't have to date all women. You just have to find ONE good one. No matter how screwed the world is, they're still out there, somewhere. Denying that is pointless cynicism. Whether you want to spend the time trying to find these special women, that's your choice.