picaso28 Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Basically I have developed strong feelings for a girl I work with. In the past she has given little hints like asking what I thought about us and stuff so I txt her asking her to go for a drink and she said no. Basically she said its not a no but just not right now....wtf? Now I do know she is keen on another man but he doesn't feel the same way so I guess maybe she is flirting with me a little for attention.anyway fast foward from here and I gave her some space for my own sanity really. But recently we have started getting on and she has been txting me a little. So my plan was to ask her out again as am soon to be leaving work. However we went to a party the other night and she got drunk and asked me what I thought about us as people say we should get together. Before I could answer she said she thought it was a bad idea as she would mess my head. I replied that we should chat about it when we were both not drunk which didn't go down too well. Anyway she came up to me a few times and was hugging me. She also asked me why I txt her x on messages when I am drunk....I replied I will txt all the time if she wants and she said not to! So fast foward again and we both end up having a lie down in a bedroom but then get disturbed so we left and joined the party again. So toady I txt her and we chat and she just says she is sorry for anthing she said.....what does that mean??? I am really confused as to whether she likes me, likes the attention , is just drunk and flirting ......any opinions or advice would be great. I'm starting to be quiet attracted to her Link to post Share on other sites
Author picaso28 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Share Posted January 21, 2013 Its the same thread but ongoing ....like I say I backed off from last time but since then she started showing interest in me , everyone at work seems to think we have sexual tension etc but I'm not so sure she really likes me....she. Sort of blows hot and cold, at times is a bit playfully rude to me and she only seems to mention 'us' when she has had a drink. I had planned to ask her for second time since I am leaving my job but since a party over the weekend I am having second thoughts as to if she into or not. Just major confused. Link to post Share on other sites
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