just recent ex wants to come by to drop things off

[mj2k4]

A month after she broke up with me, and only talking from time to time since, my ex and I were exchanging emails one day. I told her I missed her in one. Well she wrote back saying she wanted to come by and drop off some mail I had and pick her stuff up. She said whenever I am available, it didnt matter. Originally she was just leaving my mail by the front door for me, but I never came by to get it.

 

Now, i really think it's strange. It's not her style. We broke up earlier this year for about 2 months, and there was no way she was going to come by then and drop off/pickup stuff. She made me come to her place during the day when there was family around. She didnt even want to talk to me in emails or anything. she wanted NO CONTACT, as it was too hard for her. Same thing this last time. She wanted NO CONTACT.

And I dont have much of hers, just a skirt she swore she would never wear again (long story) and her old cellphone i was using temporarily when mine broke. She doesnt need the stuff. She could have just said drop those things off and come get your mail.

 

But no, she wants to come to my place, at night, where we will be alone, and shes being very flexible about it. I dont want to get back with her, because I know it wont work, but at the same time, and because I am a guy, I'm thinking: ex-sex. lol

 

But who knows? Maybe she doesnt think its too hard for her to see me this time. I know she is dating someone, or was. Who knows now. Maybe she likes this guy a lot and can now handle seeing me without feeling sad or crying? i dont know.

Im not sure what the hell the point of this post was, sorry.

[lnichols]

It sounds like she does want more than just to pick up her stuff and drop off your mail. Ex-sex can be great, but afterward, OMG! Be careful and make sure you don't fall into that trap of getting used when she and her current BF are fighting, otherwise known as "Grudge Sex", which can be really great, as well. She may be having second thoughts about the break-up. Why did you break up, anyway? If you don't mind my asking?