Got it Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 My experience was that being married made courting more difficult, and posed all sorts of issues that meant being 'smooth' was simply not an option Yes dMM was anything but smooth. Now he was earnest, I will give you that. But smooth? nope. He is a bit smoother now I think but definitely still earnest. I said it then, I will say it now, I have never felt so loved by someone as I do by dMM. This man truly, completely, and fully loves me. For me. Not for any facade of me, not for just parts of me. For the first time I have been fully and truly open with someone and this crazy man loves it. I am going through some tough times right now and while he, at times looks a bit lost on how to handle it, is always there to support, to hold my hand, and to give me a shoulder to lean on. Sorry, got a little t/j. I really do love this man more today than ever before. I just really really love him. Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Dating after breaking up a big romance is difficult whether married or not, I agree. However, many OWs have expressed difficulties in finding available single men that provide the same rush. Perhaps the OW has less options with single man and that is why they don't compare to the MOM. If you think about it. If a woman goes for a MOM it probably means she cannot find a comparable single man. Nope, I wasn't even looking for a man, date, boyfriend, lover, however you choose to refer to him. I certainly wasn't looking for a MM. ....and sure I was ignorant to A's and how they went down. He came seeking me, I turned him away, and he kept coming around. Finally, I began to let down my guard with time and trust him. Very bad choice on my part. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Dating after breaking up a big romance is difficult whether married or not, I agree. However, many OWs have expressed difficulties in finding available single men that provide the same rush. Perhaps the OW has less options with single man and that is why they don't compare to the MOM. Unless you compare responses on break-up boards too then your post is still merely an exercise in furthering your own cause. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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