Andy119 Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 So there was this girl that I work with, She's very pretty and seems really nice. I asked her for her number a few months ago after I;d been talking to her a bit at work. She said she had a boyfriend, fair enough. After this we still kept talking a bit and there was alot of eye contact and I was always the first one to say "hey and start talking. I decided to stop this and see what happened. After a few days she started talking to me first. She left my work to go work somewhere else at the end of november. But I bumped into her at a club on a night out (she joined a queue behind me) So I started talking to her, asking how her new job was going etc and her friend jumped (literally) in between us and said she didn't want to talk to me and to leave her alone. I was pretty embarrassed but I apologised and went back to talking to my friends. Anyway she's now started back at my work and I've yet to talk to her but today she walked past me looking at me with a smile and she stopped shortly after passing me. I think she wanted me to say something maybe? does she want to be friends? or does she just like attention? Link to post Share on other sites
will1988 Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 It seems like she is playing games. Her friend jumped in front of you and said to stop talking to her? Really? If I were you, I would told the friend I didn't ask for your opinion... but then again thats just me. anyway, your best bet is to let her come to you. You've talked to her, and now she is playing games. Let her come to you if she wants to talk, otherwise ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted January 22, 2013 Share Posted January 22, 2013 I agree. Seems like stupid games. Be polite but don't go out of your way to say hi to her. I do think she likes you but is insecure and immature. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Andy119 Posted January 22, 2013 Author Share Posted January 22, 2013 Her friend jumped in front of you and said to stop talking to her? Really? Yup, I got a bit of a shock, didn't really know what to say lol. Thanks for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
TyphoonALX Posted January 27, 2013 Share Posted January 27, 2013 Definately sounds like the girl is playing some kind of game with you. My guess is that she is just seeking attention from you. Honestly If I was you, I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to her. I'd still be polite to her (since she's a co-worker) and say Hi. But I wouldn't give her any kind of extra attention. So either She won't care and you won't have anything to deal with her and you can move on or she'll become desperate and try to get your attention giving you the upper hand in the this game she's trying to play. Link to post Share on other sites
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