The_Furious_Bear Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 This story is pretty nuts but unfortunately it is true and has been a total nightmare for me. By the way I've only been married for a couple years. Two nights ago I was searching through my wife's email account. I don't normally snoop around but my wife has done some pretty shady things in the last year of our marriage so to calm my nerves I wanted to take a look. In her email I found a chain of emails that were dated a month before we got married where she communicated to a modeling agent. Not that odd since my wife models part time. As I read on I see that she admits in the emails to having sex with this man in exchange to better her career. I'm completely devastated. I forward the emails to my email account for proof encase she deletes them and I wake her up and scream at her. She denies cheating on me even though in the emails both her and this man openly talk about their encounter. She keeps telling me for 2 solid hours nothing happened. I am about to lose it at this point so I walk outside to call my mom and to smoke a cigarette. I inform my mom of what happened and she listens to me rant...i feel more cooled off and go back inside to talk to her but she is no where to be found. I check all the rooms in the house and find her in the bathroom attempting to hang herself. I pull the rope off her neck and sit her down on the couch..she is unharmed so I stand watch over her to make sure she doesn't try again. While standing watch I still question her and she finally admits she cheated on me with the modeling agent to secure a contract and to get ahead in the business. I continue to search through her email and see she also stripped for 2 weeks (fully naked and gave lap dances) a month prior to our wedding. She did cocaine while she stripped and modeled nude for 3 different photographers. I told her from day one never to model nude. I was oblivious to this because I was working outside the country for a few months right before our marriage. She has asked me to forgive her because she says she is no longer the same person however just last year she decided to crash at some guys house for the night while I was out of town....wtf. Link to post Share on other sites
Dying2Live Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 It may sound a little cliche or heartless. I know your on here to seek advice that could save your marriage. Realistically though, you could not have a future with this person. Even in 10 years with no issues between you, i cannot see how you would ever put this behind you. The trust factor plays a cruicial role in a relationship and she will never be able to leave the house without you second guessing her intentions. Link to post Share on other sites
revitup Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Exit............ Stage left!!!!!!!! Revitup Link to post Share on other sites
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