Decorative Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 I never agree on cheating. And mostly I believe that it is the bs how is the source of most issues in the relationship and put's in the least effort, even tho they feel different at the time. Second of all they failed to communicate their problems (this is also losing their lust for the os). Most of them don't even have an clear reason why. Or subjective things like: he or she wasn't there for my anymore. What an clear example of how to say something but in fact you say absolutely nothing, I if you think about it. You have pointed out a very clear reason why you cheated (and for one moment I thought understandable reason). But then I thought why would anyone stay with an partner like that. Did you find out late in the marriage etc? But still I can''t think of the possibility and truely hope by God that I never ever stay in an marraige where I found out my partner lied over really big things! You believe the betrayed spouse is the source of most issues and puts in the least effort? Seriously? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Act Two Posted January 24, 2013 Author Share Posted January 24, 2013 You have pointed out a very clear reason why you cheated (and for one moment I thought understandable reason). But then I thought why would anyone stay with an partner like that. Did you find out late in the marriage etc? I didn't write all that to point out a reason for cheating- I don't think it is. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 You believe the betrayed spouse is the source of most issues and puts in the least effort? Seriously? I think he meant WS but typed BS. Then later typed os instead of BS. I may end up missing a few of my own typos (I do all this on a god forsaken iPhone) but I don't think it's asking that much to perhaps read your post over once to make sure it like, makes sense. But we're in an age where it's apparently too much work to capitalize an i so I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Decorative Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 I think he meant WS but typed BS. Then later typed os instead of BS. I may end up missing a few of my own typos (I do all this on a god forsaken iPhone) but I don't think it's asking that much to perhaps read your post over once to make sure it like, makes sense. But we're in an age where it's apparently too much work to capitalize an i so I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. Okay. Whew. Link to post Share on other sites
aed Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 I think he meant WS but typed BS. Then later typed os instead of BS. I may end up missing a few of my own typos (I do all this on a god forsaken iPhone) but I don't think it's asking that much to perhaps read your post over once to make sure it like, makes sense. But we're in an age where it's apparently too much work to capitalize an i so I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. True! sorry everyone! (I meant: the WSs are mostly the source of 80% of the marterial problems even before the affaire) What I meant was: this is one of the very few WS-treads where he or she has point out a clear issue's they have in their marraige. And that issue is not subjective like: "he or she wasn't their for me", I had the feeling they didn't understand me" etc. So I could understand the reason for cheating for a moment. But on the hand totaly NOT. Because why did you stay with him? That issue is a major dealbreaker for me and I hope by god that I will always walk away when that happens even when I would have childeren etc. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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