Doormat

[Scottie]

Well hello everyone, thank you to tony and sara for the kind and honest advice in response to hopless and all the good ones. Here's the latest. Sat night I went to bed after posting hopeless. She waltzes in around 4:30am and flops on the couch because I was already in the bed. Sun morn. I wake up, check my messages. She wakes up and acts as if nothings wrong. Then proceds to show me the TATOO that "some of the guys at work" got her for her B-day. Which is next week. These are the same guys that the phone #'s came from.

 

This @#$%$#@ tatoo starts at the top of her bakini line and goes up. It's not so much the tatoo as the disrespect. My feelings are hurt. I was worried about her because she didn't bother to call all day or night. But like an idiot, I say cool tatoo hon, and put on my scrubs, and off to work I go. (idiot huh)

 

Ya know, I was hurt, worried, confused, & angry. Then she shows up and is supprised that I wont talk to her? I don't know what my prob is except that I love her. but I cant do this any more, it's killing me inside. No one deservs this kind of crap. Scottie out.

[Tony T]

Well, I'm really sorry I can't help you here because I'd be way too emotional about this. Any girl who came home to me after an all nighter during which she got a tattoo of any size, anywhere on her body, would be history.

 

Yes, absolutely, it's her body and her decision. And it's my life and my decision to leave. Tattoo's are respulsive to me, on both men and women. 99.9 percent of the people who get them, while drunk or on a whim, live to regret it. (Many young people are so stupidly ignorant they even put the names of guys and gals on them, people they won't even know in a few months or years). Tattoos are not attractive to me, they cheapen the female body (and the male body too), there is just nothing good I can say about them for myself.

 

I absolutely have the highest respect for all those people who think tattoos are wonderful. They can wipe their bodies out with them. Be my guest.

 

I would throw any lady out on the street even in 50 degree below zero weather, no matter whether I was married to her or not, if she showed up back home with some sick permanent cheap crap on her body.

 

So you probably now won't have to guess how I feel about this. I hope you get other people who will give you some ways of saving this relationship. This babe has ZERO respect for you. But everybody's different. I'm really sorry about being so fanatic about this.

 

Let me opt out of this one. It's way too emotional a subject for me, although I guess that hasn't stopped me before. But this one, really, it just makes me sssssoooooooooooo sick!!!

[Paulie]

Listen to the song by "The Offspring" entitled "Self-esteem"

 

Reminds me of this guy and his chick.

[Paulie]

The very fact that this guy calls himself "Doormat" makes my point.

 

 

I wrote her off for the tenth time today

 

And practiced all the things I would say

 

But she came over

 

I lost my nerve

 

I took her back and made her dessert

 

Now I know I'm being used

 

That's okay man cause I like the abuse

 

I know she's playing with me

 

That's okay cause I got no self esteem

 

We make plans to go out at night

 

I wait till 2 then I turn out the light

 

All this rejection's got me so low

 

If she keeps it up I just might tell her no

 

When she's saying that she wants only me

 

Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends

 

When she's saying that I'm like a disease

 

Then I wonder how much more I can spend

 

Well I guess I should speak up for myself

 

But I really think it's better this way

 

The more you suffer

 

The more it shows you really care

 

Right? Yeah yeah yeah

 

Now I'll relate this little bit

 

That happens more than I'd like to admit

 

Late at night she knocks on my door

 

Drunk again and looking to score

 

Now I know I should say no

 

But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go

 

I may be dumb

 

But I'm not a dweeb

 

I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

 

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[Tony T]

Great lyrics. There's also a song by Stevie Wonder entitled "All Day Sucker." Great song.

 

The main lyric is: "I'm just an all day sucker comin' to give something but to get none of your love."

 

Hey, Stevie is blind and he can see this crap. Can you imagine just how bad it is???!!!

[Deejette]

The fact that the tattoo begins at the bikini line shows lack of respect for you. But if you keep taking her back, she will see you as a pushover and will keep losing respect. Next thing you know, she may bring home a disease that she has shared with others and has passed on to you too, knowing that you will always forgive her.

Great lyrics. There's also a song by Stevie Wonder entitled "All Day Sucker." Great song. The main lyric is: "I'm just an all day sucker comin' to give something but to get none of your love." Hey, Stevie is blind and he can see this crap. Can you imagine just how bad it is???!!!