KungFuJoe Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Lot of man/woman hatred to found in LS. Just wondering...is there anyone here who is a "converted" gender hater? Some guy who used to think women were the scum of the earth, but then found the "one" who changed his perspective of women forever? Some girl who thought all guys were jerks, but found her true love? Link to post Share on other sites
sweetkiwi Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Nope. I've always loved men. The ignorant ones not so much. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 I dont think all guys are jerks, and i have met quite a few, I do believe i met someone though who reignited my love for the male species..or my desire to be close to a male of the species..I have in the past held no desire to be with another. now i know i want to..deb Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 There's one day or so each month where I'm a raging misandrist, but then I keep converting back to normal. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 I don't think it's an equal number, but its much closer then people want to believe. Misandrists are just much better at hiding it Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Reformed misandrist here. I really used to hate men with a passion. Thought most of them were sleazy, lacked masculine traits, and overall had become a generation of pussies. Then I looked in the mirror. We're gonna be okay. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Reformed misandrist here. I really used to hate men with a passion. Thought most of them were sleazy, lacked masculine traits, and overall had become a generation of pussies. Then I looked in the mirror. We're gonna be okay. I love you so much. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 I love you so much. Feeling's mutual, Treasy Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Hope that I am not jinxing it but I have to mention Woggle here. I have noticed a vast improvement in him. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Right here though I think I am still in the process of recovery. There are moments I want to say something stupid back when I hear a misandrist comment but I take a moment and stop myself now where before I would just say something misogynist in reponse. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Woggle has been amazing recently. I used to be a bit of a militant feminist back in my teens due to the culture I was raised in - I wasn't outright misandrist, but did have some leanings towards. That was probably because sexism and hate begets sexism and hate. The culture that I was raised in was inherently chauvinistic, and so I fought right back. I then realized that I was letting them win, if I allowed the bigoted minds of society to shape my worldview, even if it was in the opposite direction. Moving to an egalitarian country didn't hurt either. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) OP - why are you asking? What would locating these people do for you? Western relationships are currently in a downward spiral, man-hating is everywhere and still on the rise, and the subsequent backlash against that is consequently still on the rise. I hate MANY women. I see nothing wrong with that, because I hate them not for their GENDER, but for their actions toward men, attitudes toward men and expectations of men. I blame the society as much as the gender itself. Society has told women to embrace and amplify their own corrupt nature. Society has sold these women a lie, that the impossible is possible: that they can be both equal and privileged, that they can be both completely independent and happily devoted, and that they should make as much money as men while only respecting and pursuing men who make more money than they do. Now you have a society where happy marriage is the punchline to a joke. You want misogyny and misandry to go away? That will only ever happen when human beings can start figuring out how to be honest about their own gender identity and human nature. Not to force "equality in everything" when it is at odds with peoples' fundamental nature and gender roles, but instead to honestly determine how to, as a society, treat both men and women fairly and to honestly value and reward what comes naturally to both. Unfortunately, the owners of this world WANT the discord we currently experience, WANT to destroy family and have brainwashed an entire generation to think that traditional values are "old and stupid." They'll probably succeed. People are really, really gullible. Hate to break it to you -- you're living on the planet of the short bus. Best not take any of it too seriously. Edited January 26, 2013 by ChessPieceFace 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Western relationships are currently in a downward spiral, man-hating is everywhere and still on the rise, and the subsequent backlash against that is consequently still on the rise. If you think the Asian relationship/gender identity scene is generally full of happiness, peace, and acceptance with no gender-based backlash, you probably have never left America. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) If you think the Asian relationship/gender identity scene is generally full of happiness, peace, and acceptance with no gender-based backlash, you probably have never left America. Probably hard to have balanced gender perspectives in a society that kills babies for not being male. Also - many western guys import asian wives and AFAIK are very happy. Why - because these asian women were brought up to understand how to respect men, and are probably very happy by how much their American man respects them in return. Constant disrespect, bitching and impossible demands from western women can hurt relationships? Who knew? Edited January 26, 2013 by ChessPieceFace Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigQuestion Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 OP - why are you asking? What would locating these people do for you? Western relationships are currently in a downward spiral, man-hating is everywhere and still on the rise, and the subsequent backlash against that is consequently still on the rise. I hate MANY women. I see nothing wrong with that, because I hate them not for their GENDER, but for their actions toward men, attitudes toward men and expectations of men. I blame the society as much as the gender itself. Society has told women to embrace and amplify their own corrupt nature. Society has sold these women a lie, that the impossible is possible: that they can be both equal and privileged, that they can be both completely independent and happily devoted, and that they should make as much money as men while only respecting and pursuing men who make more money than they do. Now you have a society where happy marriage is the punchline to a joke. You want misogyny and misandry to go away? That will only ever happen when human beings can start figuring out how to be honest about their own gender identity and human nature. Not to force "equality in everything" when it is at odds with peoples' fundamental nature and gender roles, but instead to honestly determine how to, as a society, treat both men and women fairly and to honestly value and reward what comes naturally to both. Unfortunately, the owners of this world WANT the discord we currently experience, WANT to destroy family and have brainwashed an entire generation to think that traditional values are "old and stupid." They'll probably succeed. People are really, really gullible. Hate to break it to you -- you're living on the planet of the short bus. Best not take any of it too seriously. I can't say I really hate many women, but the rest of your post contains some pretty interesting observations. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Any reformed misogynists and misandrists?Not me. Misogynist and proud. OK no, but there are times I certainly feel that way Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Backlash was the reason I became a misogynist. After having it beaten into me by my mom what a piece of garbage I was because I was a male and having my ex be treated like the victim when she obviously wasn't at the time I just said the hell with it and start throwing the hatred in the other direction until I realized I was becoming no better than them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Backlash was the reason I became a misogynist. After having it beaten into me by my mom what a piece of garbage I was because I was a male and having my ex be treated like the victim when she obviously wasn't at the time I just said the hell with it and start throwing the hatred in the other direction until I realized I was becoming no better than them. Interesting. I had an amazing, caring and honorable mom who told me not to be so negative. But she never had to be a man dating women in 21st century USA. Looking around the world I live in, at the actions and attitudes of the women in this society and how far removed they are from a.) the good ideals I grew up believing about women and b.) what I know is necessary for healthy relationships (mutual respect) is how I formed my own beliefs. My only consolation is that I don't have to date all of western womanhood (THANK GOD.) I just have to find one single honorable, respectful woman who is worthy of MY great respect that I would give her. I've met MAYBE 2 such women in my entire life. They were both taken. Oh well. Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Ok so which one is the man hater and which one is the woman hater? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Backlash was the reason I became a misogynist. After having it beaten into me by my mom what a piece of garbage I was because I was a male and having my ex be treated like the victim when she obviously wasn't at the time I just said the hell with it and start throwing the hatred in the other direction until I realized I was becoming no better than them. I remember some of your posts from years back. You've certainly changed quite a bit. It's really commendable, because that kind of change is hard to do. Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Ok so which one is the man hater and which one is the woman hater? When did I call you a woman hater? I said men with tattoos fall into certain classes of men, many of whom are arrogant and trying to be "alpha males" and jerks toward women, and that everything you said since then proves that -especially taking your childish argument into a totally different thread, expecting people to remember who you even are. I'm not a "woman hater" - I hate many women for their behavior. Big difference. I hate many men for their behavior too, but I don't have to worry about dating them. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Wogs - let me buy you a drink. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 When did I call you a woman hater? I said men with tattoos fall into certain classes of men, many of whom are arrogant and trying to be "alpha males" and jerks toward women, and that everything you said since then proves that -especially taking your childish argument into a totally different thread, expecting people to remember who you even are. I'm not a "woman hater" - I hate many women for their behavior. Big difference. I hate many men for their behavior too, but I don't have to worry about dating them. You misunderstood, he was feigning ignorance at the difference between the terms misogynist and misandrist - he wasn't referring to you. Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 You misunderstood, he was feigning ignorance at the difference between the terms misogynist and misandrist - he wasn't referring to you. Ah you're right. Jumped the gun there sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 26, 2013 Share Posted January 26, 2013 You misunderstood, he was feigning ignorance at the difference between the terms misogynist and misandrist - he wasn't referring to you. Thank you. -____- Link to post Share on other sites
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