newmoon Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 my bf just got a new apartment and i have noticed that along with this new apartment has come a new attitude. an attitude of 'i'm better', 'i have more options', etc. - a bit of bragging. he has also, in the past week, done 2 things that stand out from his normal personality. over dinner the other night he went on at great length about how deceptive/deceitful he has been in the past towards businesses and people; faking paperwork and documents to get what he wants, paying people off for favors, etc. he had so much to 'confess' that i was floored by this info. to say the least and listened to him in a stupor. then, a few days later he starts to tell me about past relationships (which we have never talked about before), and he tells me about 3-4 women that he was involved with, with specifics. information i never asked for and now wish i didn't know. what is bringing on all these confessions do you think?? we've been together about 1.5 years and as of late haven't been as close as usual. i'm thinking a) he no longer likes me so what the heck, tell everything because we won't be together long anyway b) his new 'life' is making him feel so proud of himself he's boasting in all areas now c)enough time has passed that he feels he can trust me with anyting now or d)??? why would a guy all of a sudden 'cleanse' himself to a girlfriend? is this good or bad news? these confessions are making me less interested in him and not more because i'm losing all respect Link to post Share on other sites
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