theediblewoman Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 Alright! So I am by no means a perfect individual so please no judgements. I had been in a 3 year relationship with a man who was quite controlling, critical and had a mean temper. I had become very unhappy in my relationship,realizing how toxic it really was in the last few months. I started a new job and instantly had a connection with a supervisor of mine. We flirted a fair bit and I began to really really like him. He was the first person I admitted to wanting to leave my relationship to,but we both never spoke of dating one another or me leaving my bf for him,but it seemed clear he was attracted to me. Last week I went out to a staff night out that is weekly and asked him if he was going.Initially he said no,but once I told him I was going to be there, he changed his mind and showed up. We ended up hanging out all night at the club until we eventually left together and walked to our respective bus stops. We hugged goodbye and next thing I knew we were kissing. It was amazing,perfect and so sweet and made realize that I had really felt unfulfilled in my current relationship and so I broke it off the next day. Now I'm not sure how to proceed with the other guy, I really like him and have for months now and while he seems faily responsive to my flirting and even brought me soup he made from scratch he is also not really making any moves or making obvious efforts to be closer to me. This could be due to the fact that he is my supervisor (a lot of people date or mess around at my work and it's seasonal so I don't care too much about the job) and I haven't told him I'm single,but many around the office know I've ended things with my ex. My question I suppose is what do I do next? Do I tell him I broke things off? Will that scare him away? I don't want him to assume I just want a replacement bf, but I really would like to hang out and get to know him. I have not had feelings like this for someone in a long time. I feel like a 15 year old again!Help?! haha Link to post Share on other sites
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