Oschin Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 Hi all..This is the first time I'm posting a note on loveshack....I've been happily married for a year....The only reason my hubby n myself fight for is bcoz of his ex..she is part of his friend's circle...my husband's friend's circle is really close knit...he has nothin for his ex but once she started dating my husband's best friend 3 years ago..thats when all the problem started..so I have to meet her every damn time there is a get together..I have never hated anybody as much as i hate her..she is a fat lump n I'm not insecure about my relationship with my hubby...but she gets touchy with him..he is a person who cant be rude...he told his best friend that my wife is not comfortable with her behaviour but she still continues to get touchy with him...when we all go out for dinner...she doesn't even look at my face..its like i dont exist..she would just look at my hubby's face n talk...n when she touches my hubby my blood pressures shoots up...the only reason why I haven't slapped her is bcoz if I do something crazy then my hubby will lose his best friend...n I dont wanna made him sad....I seriously don't know how i should react in these kinda situations...It just doesn't go off my head no matter how hard i try and ...i need to help sortin this issue out...Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 Its up to your husband to tell her NOT to touch him, to tell her to respect his boundaries and yours. Ok, fine, so he doesn't want to be "rude" - whatever, he needs to just say to her that he doesn't want her all over him. It's that simple. If she doesn't respect that, then maybe you guys should limit your outings with them. I get that she's dating his best friend, but it is what it is, and he can see his best friend on guys nights out. How does the best friend - her boyfriend react to her being all over and touchy with your husband? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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