sunshine6 Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 I need help. I just can't seem to do this on my own. I've been in what I guess you would call and EA with a coworker... I know... Anyways, it escalated to kissing/touching about six months ago or so. I know I need to break away and I want to, I think...but it's so hard seeing him everyday. It's almost like the more I try to ignore my feelings and pull away, the stronger my desire becomes for him. Is this normal??? How can I overcome this and get to a point where I can see him/work alongside him without feelings such a strong urge to be close to him or with him? Thanks... Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 Can you transfer to a different department? If you can't control yourself then you need to remove yourself from the situation. Link to post Share on other sites
carryon Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 I was in a similar situation that went on for 2 years. It ended, I'm crushed. I look back and wish I could have ended it on my own terms before the W discovered it. It will hurt like hell, but ending it after 6 months will hurt less than letting it carry on for years. Its going to end eventually, so don't invest more time and get attached more. I agree with the department change. And unfortunately, possibly a job change. NC is the way to go. Be strong. It sucks. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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