kiey Posted January 19, 1999 Share Posted January 19, 1999 My boyfriend has begun to meet young ladies on the internet. I don't have a problem with him doing this, however I have a problem with what they discuss. I don't like the way he leads them on. I can't tell him anything about it, because I sneak and check his email and he doesn't know I know his password. He tells them that he would like to meet them, and he has met two of them because they said how they liked the feel of his chest. He also has begun to go to strip clubs, which I object to but I don't tell him anything because he goes with a group of friends. He's only been maybe three times in our whole four year relationship. The biggest problem I have with him if, I'm always with him and he told one of his friends that he had a "friend" over and didn't want to be rude. (one of the girls from the internet) He also had on his webpage that he was single and looking but changed it to long term relationship after I got PISSED off with him. Am I being petty? Or does this warrant a serious attitude adjustment? Link to post Share on other sites
the lorax Posted January 20, 1999 Share Posted January 20, 1999 do you really deserve someone so dishonest? Get rid of him. meet young ladies on the internet. I don't have a problem with him My boyfriend has begun to doing this, however I have a problem with what they discuss. I don't like the way he leads them on. I can't tell him anything about it, because I sneak and check his email and he doesn't know I know his password. He tells them that he would like to meet them, and he has met two of them because they said how they liked the feel of his chest. He also has begun to go to strip clubs, which I object to but I don't tell him anything because he goes with a group of friends. He's only been maybe three times in our whole four year relationship. The biggest problem I have with him if, I'm always with him and he told one of his friends that he had a "friend" over and didn't want to be rude. (one of the girls from the internet) He also had on his webpage that he was single and looking but changed it to long term relationship after I got PISSED off with him. Am I being petty? Or does this warrant a serious attitude adjustment? Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted January 20, 1999 Share Posted January 20, 1999 Being unfaithful is being unfaithful....it sounds like your doubts are warranted. He isn't being respectful and considerate of your feelings and needs in this relationship, which is essential. If he isn't aware of your concerns, voice them clearly and maturely. If he is not willing to meet on middle ground, which is a DUTY in a successful relationship, then perhaps you should find some new territory. Link to post Share on other sites
Christie Posted January 22, 1999 Share Posted January 22, 1999 I have been in a four year relationship myself and If I found out my boyfriend was doing that I would probably be very pissed off I asume since you to have been together for that long you both love each other or you really love him and if he really loves you he would even be going to a strip clubs anyway I think he need anattitude adjustment. My boyfriend has begun to meet young ladies on the internet. I don't have a problem with him doing this, however I have a problem with what they discuss. I don't like the way he leads them on. I can't tell him anything about it, because I sneak and check his email and he doesn't know I know his password. He tells them that he would like to meet them, and he has met two of them because they said how they liked the feel of his chest. He also has begun to go to strip clubs, which I object to but I don't tell him anything because he goes with a group of friends. He's only been maybe three times in our whole four year relationship. The biggest problem I have with him if, I'm always with him and he told one of his friends that he had a "friend" over and didn't want to be rude. (one of the girls from the internet) He also had on his webpage that he was single and looking but changed it to long term relationship after I got PISSED off with him. Am I being petty? Or does this warrant a serious attitude adjustment? Link to post Share on other sites
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