SimbaNala Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Okay so here's my problem. I feel like I am falling, hard, for my best friend Jane's boyfriend Henry. Jane and Henry have been dating for around four months. He is crazy about her but she's hesitant. Henry and I almost got together around the time him and Jane got together. He liked both of us but he ended up with Jane. He's been a really good friend to me for the past five months and I feel like it is growing into so much more. He tells me he thinks back to when me and him almost got together and he thinks of it often. He thinks he is falling in love with Jane but she's driving him crazy literally. She told me she's in love with her friend Dean but she likes Henry too and she's been hurt by Dean before but she can't let him go. She doesn't always feel like Henry is her boyfriend and it hurts him because he can tell. Today and for the past week or so I felt like he was really distant toward Jane but he was connecting with me a lot. I don't want to hurt Jane but it kills me seeing her kinda toy with Henry the way she does. I want to be with him but I have to hold it back and I don't know what to do because I think he's staring to like me too. I'm so confused. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Which is more important to you? Friendship and loyality or letting your best friends boyfriend close to you. Sorry to be blunt but you need to back off and let your friend sort out her love life. Don't get involved or try to split them up. If they break up, and some time has gone by, then talk to your best friend and let her know that you like Henry and would like to date him. Until then do nothing.. Detach from her boyfriend and focus on other things and people in your life. Do NOT let anything happen between you and your best friends boyfriend, even if she isn't into him as much as she should be, and she's still liking her ex. Don't be that kind of friend who betrays her best friend.. You will regret it and probably hurt yourself along the way as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Sorry to be blunt but you need to back off and let your friend sort out her love life. Don't get involved or try to split them up. Yeah. OP, since you have feelings for her boyfriend, it is inappropriate for you to carry on a friendship with him. Do the right thing and quit hanging out with him. If you don't, it's very likely that things will progress and cause a lot of hurt feelings, and just a general ****storm and a lot of drama. Don't do it. Link to post Share on other sites
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