Estate Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Dont even think of clubs. Dont even think of jobs, dont even think of schools. Women in all those places want the best of the cream. They want handsome guys, they want great career guys, all that. But what if you're an average guy with no or little success. For example taking out staples is your job. Women, acording to most women here, think that's stupid and not ambitious and they hate those kind of guys. But let me tell you what? THAT"S THE REALITY. We're not all sassy outgoing Sales buys or Engineers. So yeah don't tell me CAFEs either. that doesn't work for aveage guys. Here are the places i've proved that don't work for average guys 1. Schools 2. College/Uni 3. Jobs 4. Cafes 5. clubs 6. Libraries 7. stores 8. shops 9.supermakerts 10. beach 11. Concerts/ parties 12. Parks 13. "classes" Basically pretty much no where. WOmen dont want average guys at all. And women are more picky. AND I"M TALKING ABOUT GUYS WITH AVERAGE everything(Average or below average job type, Average looks, Average or below average intelligence , average or below average speaking skills) WOMEN are more picky..They want perfect guys. I have an easier solution. Go to all of those places... just stop being average. In all seriousness, I'm not joking. I'm not Hot, I know I'm not but I was incredibly shy and awkward when I was younger. I don't give a crap anymore and just put myself out there, and I've gotten so many more girls from it. Oh my god, I approached 1 girl and she wasn't interested.... the world is ending!! Get over it. Lots of girls don't like me, lots do. I keep meeting new ones until I find the best ones. Link to post Share on other sites
neveragain34 Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Have you tried online dating? If a girl isn't interested in you due to your staple removing career, she just won't contact you. Problem solved. Just go out with the ones who do contact you knowing beforehand you are "average". Just don't make the mistake of having a misleading profile. Be clear and honest and maybe someone will actually appreciate it. In your wording, try to highlight your best qualities and what you have to offer and be sure to make it light and fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Estate Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 There's no way your job is just removing staples. It sounds like a sob story. What is your ACTUAL job title and what do you REALLY do even if removing staples is something you do from time to time (why exactly?) I mean if you tell girls you are a staple remover then its weird. If you tell them what you actually do and are proud to have a job that you do well and earn some money then maybe people would appreciate that. Link to post Share on other sites
superb Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 Average guys can be very cool people...but I want to be able to talk with them and communicate so the speaking skills thing that made me lol earlier is a deal breaker. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 There's no way your job is just removing staples. It sounds like a sob story. What is your ACTUAL job title and what do you REALLY do even if removing staples is something you do from time to time (why exactly?) I mean if you tell girls you are a staple remover then its weird. If you tell them what you actually do and are proud to have a job that you do well and earn some money then maybe people would appreciate that. This job actually exists man. I know a few russians, including one 40 year old dude, and a few girls who work right next to me and that is their entire job. 8 hours a day removing staples and stamping incoming mail with the date received. Link to post Share on other sites
Estate Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 So the job is working in a mail room? Why not say that instead of "staple remover". Like, it's not about what you do or what your job is... it's about the fact that you are putting yourself down. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GravityMan Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 QuietGuy, you need to reassess your definition of an "average guy". So-called "average" guys have decent success with dating and relationships, have some interests and a few passions, and have no problem holding a conversation. Professionally, assuming they weren't bitten by the bad economy, they usually have "middle-class" jobs. They tend to be more relationship-minded as opposed to flings and one night stands. It's not necessary to be a Don Juan, a Tom Brady or a Channing Tatum, in order to attract women. Highly successful, powerful, charismatic guys get attraction from a lot of women; but such guys are uncommon. Average guys get a more modest number of women attracted to them...but the point is, women are still attracted to them. I suspect that 80% to 90% of ALL guys will have had some sort of dating and/or relationship experience by the age of 25. Simple logic dictates that many of the guys in that group would be perceived as "average" to most people (and of course "special" to the women who like them). Dude, you really need to toss your defeatist, woe-is-me attitude in the trash. People generally don't want to be around that, and I don't blame them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
louise_23 Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 lol i am pursuing this ''average in all respects'' guy of which you speak atthe moment. i met him as he lived in the same building as some of my friends. can i just say, please, as average as you may be, please for the love of god be confident in yourself. the lack of confidence is the most offputting thing in the world. it makes you seem very hard to please imo. Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 If you dont have money or success, personality can make up for it. Since your name is quietguy, Im thinking you dont have much personality. Most women will give an average looking guy with a stellar personality a chance. Stop degrading women, because very men would give an average looking woman with a stellar personality a chance (unless they are desperate and cant get anything else) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 You just noticed the chick now? I've been using her as my avatar for a week at least now. Elly Tran Ha Tran meaning transsexual? Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 The average guy is going to have to develop a social circle if he ever expects to land a halfway decent girl. Throw bars/clubs, OLD, speeddating, gym, any kind of meat market out the window. That only works for above average in looks. Its not so much about where you go, its who you know. Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 30, 2013 Share Posted January 30, 2013 I have been above average in terms of that stuff my whole life. Not way above average, but I went to a good school, have graduate degrees, make decent money, yada, yada. It's really about looks. Even above average women, if their looks are way below average, their accomplishments won't matter. A woman with a high school degree who is an 8 and a waitress will have way more options than a woman who is a 5 who is a doctor. And though, people try and say women are less shallow, it's pretty much the same for them. So, don't bother. Link to post Share on other sites
Esoteric Elf Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Since your name is quietguy, Im thinking you dont have much personality. Golden. Link to post Share on other sites
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